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                                NETEGRITY, INC.
                                 201 JONES ROAD
                               WALTHAM, MA 02451
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                    NOTICE OF ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
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TIME AND DATE.................   9:00 a.m., Eastern Daylight Time, on Wednesday,
                                 May 26, 2004

PLACE.........................   Netegrity, Inc.
                                 201 Jones Road
                                 Waltham, MA 02451

ITEMS OF BUSINESS.............   (1) To elect a Board of Directors to serve for
                                 the ensuing year.

                                 (2) To approve the adoption of the 2004 Stock
                                 Incentive Plan.

                                 (3) To grant discretionary authority to the
                                 presiding officer to propose and vote for one
                                 or more adjournments of the meeting including
                                 adjournments to permit further solicitation of
                                 proxies.

                                 (4) To transact such other business as may
                                 properly come before the meeting and any
                                 adjournment or postponement thereof.

RECORD DATE...................   In order to vote, you must be a stockholder of
                                 record on March 30, 2004.

PROXY VOTING..................   It is important that your shares be represented
                                 and voted at the meeting. You can vote your
                                 shares electronically via the Internet or by
                                 telephone or by completing and returning the
                                 proxy card sent to you. Voting instructions are
                                 printed on your proxy card and included in the
                                 accompanying Proxy Statement. You can revoke a
                                 proxy at any time prior to its exercise at the
                                 meeting by following the instructions in the
                                 Proxy Statement.

                                            /s/ M. Colette Cooke
                                            Vice President, General Counsel &
                                            Secretary

March 31, 2004


                                NETEGRITY, INC.

                                PROXY STATEMENT

                      2004 ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                           TO BE HELD ON MAY 26, 2004

     Proxies in the form enclosed with this proxy statement are solicited by the
Board of Directors of Netegrity, Inc., a Delaware corporation (the "Company"),
for use at the 2004 Annual Meeting of Stockholders to be held on Wednesday, May
26, 2004, at 9:00 a.m., Eastern Daylight Time, at the Company's principal
executive offices located at 201 Jones Road, Waltham, Massachusetts 02451, and
any adjournments thereof (the "Meeting").

     If the enclosed proxy is properly executed and returned, it will be voted
in the manner directed by the stockholder. If no specification is made with
respect to a particular matter, the shares will be voted for election of each of
the director nominees and "For" approval of the other matters. With respect to
the election of directors, any stockholder submitting a proxy has the right to
withhold authority to vote for any individual nominee or group of nominees to
the Board of Directors by writing the name of such individual or group in the
space provided on the proxy. Any person giving the enclosed form of proxy has
the power to revoke it by executing a proxy bearing a later date and delivering
it to the Secretary of the Company at any time before the proxy is exercised, by
voting in person at the meeting, or by giving written notice of revocation to
the Secretary of the Company at any time before the proxy is exercised.

     The representation in person or by proxy of the holders of a majority of
the outstanding shares of Common Stock is necessary to establish a quorum for
the transaction of business. The election of directors shall be determined by a
plurality of the votes cast by stockholders entitled to vote at the Meeting. The
affirmative vote of the holders of a majority of the Common Stock present or
represented by proxy and voting on the matter is required to approve the 2004
Stock Incentive Plan. Both abstentions and broker "non-votes" will be counted as
present for the purposes of determining the existence of a quorum for the
transaction of business. However, for purposes of determining the number of
shares voting on a particular proposal, abstentions and broker "non-votes" will
not be counted as votes cast or shares voting. In the event that a quorum is not
present at the meeting, it is expected that the meeting will be adjourned or
postponed to solicit additional proxies.

     The enclosed Annual Report to Stockholders incorporates the Company's
Annual Report on Form 10-K for the year ended December 31, 2003, including
financial statements and financial statement schedules, but excluding exhibits,
as filed with the Securities and Exchange Commission. Please contact the Company
in writing if you did not receive a copy of the Annual Report to Stockholders
and the Company will furnish you a copy at no charge. THE COMPANY WILL PROVIDE,
UPON WRITTEN REQUEST OF ANY STOCKHOLDER AS OF THE RECORD DATE FOR THE MEETING
AND PAYMENT OF AN APPROPRIATE PROCESSING FEE, COPIES OF THE EXHIBITS TO THE
COMPANY'S ANNUAL REPORT ON FORM 10-K. PLEASE ADDRESS YOUR REQUEST TO THE COMPANY
SECRETARY AT THE ADDRESS SET FORTH BELOW.

     The Annual Report to Stockholders, containing financial statements for the
year ended December 31, 2003 is being mailed with the proxy materials to all
stockholders entitled to vote, on or about April 12, 2004.

     The Company's principal executive offices are located at 201 Jones Road,
Waltham, Massachusetts 02451, and its telephone number is (781) 890-1700.

                       RECORD DATE AND VOTING SECURITIES

     Only stockholders of record at the close of business on March 30, 2004 are
entitled to notice of, and to vote at, the Meeting. On March 30, 2004, the
Company had outstanding 37,730,131 shares of Common Stock, par value $.01 per
share. Each outstanding share of Common Stock entitles the holder to one vote.


             MANAGEMENT AND PRINCIPAL HOLDERS OF VOTING SECURITIES

     The following table sets forth the beneficial ownership of the Company's
Common Stock, as of February 27, 2004, by (i) each person known by the Company
to beneficially own more than 5% of the issued and outstanding shares of Common
Stock, (ii) each director of the Company, (iii) each "named executive officer"
of the Company identified in the Summary Compensation Table below, and (iv) the
current directors and executive officers of the Company as a group. The address
of each of our directors and named executive officers is c/o Netegrity, Inc.,
201 Jones Road, Waltham, MA 02451.

     Beneficial ownership is determined in accordance with the rules of the
Securities and Exchange Commission ("SEC"), and generally includes voting power
and/or investment power with respect to securities. Shares of Common Stock
subject to options or warrants exercisable within 60 days of February 27, 2004
are deemed outstanding for purposes of computing the percentage beneficially
owned by the person holding the options or warrants, but are not deemed
outstanding for purposes of computing the percentage beneficially owned by any
other person. Except as indicated by footnote, we believe that the persons named
in this table, based on information provided by them, have sole voting and
investment power with respect to the shares of Common Stock indicated.



NAME AND ADDRESS OF                                           SHARES BENEFICIALLY
BENEFICIAL OWNER                                                     OWNED           PERCENT OF CLASS
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T. Rowe Price Associates, Inc.(1)...........................       4,499,060               11.96%
  100 East Pratt Street
  Baltimore, MD 21202
Lawrence D. Lenihan, Jr.(2).................................       2,713,305                7.21%
Pequot Capital Management, Inc.(3)..........................       2,654,930                7.06%
  500 Nyala Farm Road
  Westport, CT 06880
Barry N. Bycoff(4)..........................................       1,352,227                3.50%
Regina O. Sommer(5).........................................         133,019                   *
Deepak Taneja(6)............................................         302,390                   *
Michael L. Mark(7)..........................................         186,829                   *
Ralph B. Wagner(8)..........................................          94,618                   *
Thomas L. Thimot(9).........................................          77,250                   *
William C. Bartow(9)........................................         183,124                   *
Eric R. Giler(9)............................................          43,063                   *
Ronald T. Maheu(9)..........................................           3,750                   *
All current executive officers and directors as a group (12
  persons)(10)..............................................       5,420,345               13.33%


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   * less than 1%

 (1) Consists of securities owned by various individual and institutional
     investors which T. Rowe Price Associates, Inc. ("Price Associates") serves
     as investment advisor with power to direct investments and/or sole power to
     vote the securities. For purposes of the reporting requirements of the
     Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as amended, Price Associates is deemed to
     be a beneficial owner of such securities; however, Price Associates
     expressly disclaims beneficial ownership of such securities.

 (2) Includes 15,000 shares held by Mr. Lenihan's minor children. Mr. Lenihan is
     a Managing General Partner of Pequot Capital Management, Inc. and may be
     deemed to beneficially own the 2,654,930 shares held by Pequot Private
     Equity Fund, L.P. ("Pequot Equity") and Pequot Offshore Private Equity
     Fund, Inc. ("Pequot Offshore"). The 2,654,930 shares include 3,750 shares
     issuable upon exercise of options exercisable within 60 days of February
     27, 2004. Mr. Lenihan disclaims beneficial ownership of these shares,
     except to the extent of his pecuniary interest therein.

 (3) Consists of 2,353,235 shares held of record by Pequot Equity Fund, and
     297,945 shares held of record by Pequot Offshore and 3,750 shares issuable
     upon exercise of options exercisable within 60 days of

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     February 27, 2004. Both funds are managed by Pequot Capital Management,
     Inc., which has voting and dispositive power of the shares of Common Stock
     held by Pequot Equity and Pequot Offshore.

 (4) Includes 15,000 shares held in trust for the benefit of Mr. Bycoff's
     children and 966,977 shares issuable upon exercise of options exercisable
     within 60 days of February 27, 2004.

 (5) Includes 98,019 shares issuable upon exercise of options exercisable within
     60 days of February 27, 2004.

 (6) Includes 189,800 shares issuable upon exercise of options exercisable
     within 60 days of February 27, 2004.

 (7) Includes 34,063 shares issuable upon exercise of options exercisable within
     60 days of February 27, 2004.

 (8) Includes 31,250 shares issuable upon exercise of options exercisable within
     60 days of February 27, 2004.

 (9) Consists of shares issuable upon exercise of options exercisable within 60
     days of February 27, 2004.

(10) Includes 1,696,246 shares issuable upon exercise of options exercisable
     within 60 days of February 27, 2004.

                             ELECTION OF DIRECTORS

     At each annual meeting of stockholders, the Company's directors are elected
for a term of one year. At the Meeting, six directors are to be elected, which
will constitute the entire Board of Directors (the "Board"). The directors of
the Company so elected shall hold office until the next annual meeting of
stockholders and until their successors have been elected and qualified.

     No proxy may be voted for more people than the number of nominees listed
below. Shares represented by all proxies received by the Board and not so marked
as to withhold authority to vote for any individual director (by writing that
individual director's name where indicated on the proxy) or for all directors
will be voted FOR the election of all the nominees named below. If one or more
nominees are unable or unwilling to serve, the persons named in the accompanying
proxy will vote for substitutes designated by the Board. Should the Board not
recommend a substitute for any nominee, the proxy will be voted for the election
of the remaining nominees.

   THE FOLLOWING PARAGRAPHS PROVIDE INFORMATION AS OF THE DATE OF THIS PROXY
STATEMENT ABOUT EACH MEMBER OF THE COMPANY'S BOARD OF DIRECTORS, EACH OF WHOM IS
                            A NOMINEE FOR ELECTION.

     SANDRA E. BERGERON, 45 years old, became a director of the Company in
February 2004. Ms. Bergeron has served as Executive Vice President of Corporate
Development and Strategic Research of Network Associates, Inc., a company
offering computer security solutions, since November 2001. She has been employed
with Network Associates since April 1995. Prior to joining Network Associates,
Inc., Ms. Bergeron was employed by Dun & Bradstreet in Chicago and worked for
the Nielsen North America and Marketing Information Services Division from
November 1990 to March 1995.

     BARRY N. BYCOFF, 55 years old, was appointed President and Chief Executive
Officer and director of the Company in April 1993. In November 1999, Mr. Bycoff
was also appointed Chairman of the Board.

     ERIC R. GILER, 48 years old, became a director of the Company in December
of 1996. Since 1984, Mr. Giler has served as director and President of
Brooktrout, Inc., a supplier of hardware and software platforms used in the
development of applications, services and systems for The New Network, which was
founded in 1984. Mr. Giler serves on the Executive Committee of the American
Electronics Association (AeA) New England Council. In addition, Mr. Giler has
served on the board of the Massachusetts Telecommunications Council since its
founding in 1993, most recently as Chairman.

     LAWRENCE D. LENIHAN, JR., 39 years old, became a director of the Company in
November 2000. Mr. Lenihan is a Managing General Partner and co-head of the
Pequot venture funds and the Pequot private

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equity funds. Prior to joining Pequot in 1996, he was a principal of Broadview
Associates L.L.C., a technology oriented investment-banking firm. Prior to
joining Broadview, he held several positions at IBM, including the leader of the
interactive multimedia software product business. Mr. Lenihan also serves on the
Board of Directors of Digital Generation Systems, Inc., a provider of digital
distribution services to the broadcast advertising industry, and US Search.com,
Inc., an online provider of information and risk management services providing
public record information about individuals and companies, and several other
private companies.

     RONALD T. MAHEU, 62 years old, became a director of the Company in May
2003. Mr. Maheu was a senior partner at PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP from 1998 to
July 2002. From 1982 to 1998, he chaired Coopers & Lybrand's U.S. Technology
Industry Program. He currently serves on the board of directors of Enterasys
Networks, Inc. and Charles River Associates, Inc.

     RALPH B. WAGNER, 70 years old, became a director of the Company in
September 1992. Since 1997, Mr. Wagner has been a principal of Walnut Venture
Associates, an early stage technology funding partnership. Mr. Wagner was a
co-founder of icomXpress, Inc., a company producing workflow software for
electronic commerce applications. Mr. Wagner serves as a director of several
private companies including DYS Analytics, a developer, manufacturer and
marketer of software programs, and Softrax, a software developer specializing in
software for the software industry.

           THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS RECOMMENDS A VOTE FOR THE ELECTION
                         OF EACH OF THE ABOVE NOMINEES.

                     APPROVAL OF 2004 STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN

     On February 12, 2004, the Board of Directors of the Company adopted,
subject to stockholder approval, the 2004 Stock Incentive Plan, or the 2004
Plan. Up to 4,000,000 shares of Common Stock (subject to adjustment in the event
of stock splits and other similar events) may be issued pursuant to awards
granted under the 2004 Plan.

     The Board of Directors believes that the future success of the Company
depends, in large part, upon the ability of the Company to maintain a
competitive position in attracting, retaining and motivating key personnel.
ACCORDINGLY, THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS BELIEVES ADOPTION OF THE 2004 PLAN IS IN THE
BEST INTERESTS OF THE COMPANY AND ITS STOCKHOLDERS AND RECOMMENDS A VOTE "FOR"
THE APPROVAL OF THE 2004 PLAN.

DESCRIPTION OF THE 2004 PLAN

     The following is a brief summary of the 2004 Plan. The following summary is
qualified in its entirety by reference to the 2004 Plan, a copy of which is
attached to the electronic copy of this proxy statement filed with the SEC and
may be accessed from the SEC's home page, www.sec.gov. In addition, a copy of
the 2004 Plan may be obtained from the Secretary of the Company.

  Types of Awards

     The 2004 Plan provides for the grant of incentive stock options intended to
qualify under Section 422 of the Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as amended, or
the Code, non-statutory stock options, restricted stock awards, stock
appreciation rights, and other stock-based awards, including the grant of shares
based upon certain conditions.

     Incentive Stock Options and Non-statutory Stock Options.  Optionees receive
the right to purchase a specified number of shares of Common Stock at a
specified option price and subject to such other terms and conditions as are
specified in connection with the option grant. Options may be granted at an
exercise price which may be equal to or greater than the fair market value of
the Common Stock on the date of grant. Under present law, incentive stock
options and options intended to qualify as performance-based compensation under
Section 162(m) of the Code may not be granted at an exercise price less than
100% of the fair market value of the Common Stock on the date of grant (or less
than 110% of the fair market value in the case of incentive

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stock options granted to optionees holding more than 10% of the total combined
voting power of the Company and its subsidiaries). Options may not be granted
for a term in excess of ten years (five years in the case of incentive stock
options granted to optionees holding more than 10% of the total combined voting
power of the Company or its subsidiaries). The 2004 Plan permits the following
forms of payment of the exercise price of options: (i) payment by cash or check,
(ii) delivery to the Company of an irrevocable undertaking by a broker to
deliver sufficient funds or delivery to the Company of a copy of irrevocable
instructions to a broker to deliver sufficient funds, (iii) surrender to the
Company of shares of Common Stock, (iv) delivery to the Company of a promissory
note, (v) any other lawful means, or (vi) any combination of these forms of
payment.

     Restricted Stock Awards.  Restricted stock awards entitle recipients to
acquire shares of Common Stock, subject to the right of the Company to
repurchase all or part of those shares from the recipient in the event that the
conditions specified in the applicable award are not satisfied prior to the end
of the applicable restriction period established for the award.

     Stock Appreciation Rights.  Awards of stock appreciation rights entitle
recipients to acquire on exercise an amount of cash or Common Stock or a
combination of cash and Common Stock determined by reference to the appreciation
in the fair market value of the Common Stock from the date of grant of the
award.

     Other Stock-Based Awards.  Under the 2004 Plan, the Board of Directors has
the right to grant other Awards based upon the Common Stock having such terms
and conditions as the Board of Directors may determine, including the grant of
shares based upon certain conditions.

  Eligibility to Receive Awards

     Employees, officers, directors, consultants and advisors of the Company and
its subsidiaries (including persons who have entered into an agreement with the
Company or a subsidiary of the Company under which they will be employed by the
Company or the subsidiary in the future) are eligible to be granted awards under
the 2004 Plan. Under present law, however, incentive stock options may only be
granted to employees of the Company and its subsidiaries. The maximum number of
shares with respect to which awards may be granted to any participant under the
2004 Plan may not exceed 500,000 shares per calendar year.

     The 2004 Plan limits the number of shares of Common Stock that can be
issued pursuant to awards other than options or stock appreciation rights to
800,000.

  Plan Benefits

     As of March 30, 2004, approximately 350 persons were eligible to receive
awards under the 2004 Plan, including the Company's six executive officers and
six non-employee directors. The granting of awards under the 2004 Plan is
discretionary, and the Company cannot now determine the number or type of awards
to be granted in the future to any particular person or group.

     On March 30, 2004, the last reported sale price of the Company Common Stock
on the NASDAQ National Market was $8.19.

  Administration

     The 2004 Plan is administered by the Board of Directors. The Board of
Directors has the authority to adopt, amend and repeal the administrative rules,
guidelines and practices relating to the 2004 Plan. Pursuant to the terms of the
2004 Plan, the Board of Directors may delegate authority under the 2004 Plan to
one or more committees or subcommittees of the Board of Directors. The Board of
Directors has authorized the Compensation Committee to administer certain
aspects of the 2004 Plan, including the granting of options to executive
officers, and has authorized the President of the Company, Mr. Barry Bycoff, to
grant options subject to limitations set by the Compensation Committee.

     Subject to any applicable limitations contained in the 2004 Plan, the Board
of Directors, the Compensation Committee, or any committee to whom the Board of
Directors delegates authority, as the case may be, selects the recipients of
Awards and determines (i) the number of shares of Common Stock covered by

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options and the dates upon which those options become exercisable, (ii) the
exercise price of options (which may not be less than 100% of fair market value
of the Common Stock), (iii) the duration of options (which may not exceed 10
years), and (iv) the number of shares of Common Stock subject to any restricted
stock or other stock-based awards and the terms and conditions of those awards,
including conditions for repurchase, issue price and repurchase price.

     The Board of Directors, or a committee to whom the Board of Directors has
delegated authority, may delegate to one or more officers of the Company the
power to grant awards to employees of the Company and its subsidiaries, provided
that the terms of those awards, including the exercise price, and the maximum
number of shares subject to those awards, is fixed by the Board of Directors, or
a committee to whom the Board of Directors has delegated that authority.

     The Board of Directors is required to make appropriate adjustments in
connection with the 2004 Plan and any outstanding awards to reflect stock
splits, reverse stock splits, stock dividends, recapitalizations, combinations
of shares, reclassifications of shares, spin-offs and other similar changes in
capitalization. The 2004 Plan also contains provisions addressing the
consequences of any reorganization event, which is defined as (a) any merger or
consolidation of the Company with or into another entity as a result of which
all of the Common Stock of the Company is converted into or exchanged for the
right to receive cash, securities or other property, (b) any exchange of all of
the Common Stock of the Company for cash, securities or other property pursuant
to a share exchange transaction or (c) any liquidation or dissolution of the
Company.

     In connection with a reorganization event, the Board of Directors may
provide that:

     - awards will be assumed, or substantially equivalent awards will be
       substituted, by the acquiring or succeeding corporation or its affiliate,

     - awards will become exercisable in full and will terminate immediately
       prior to the reorganization event to the extent not exercised within a
       specified time period,

     - in the event of a reorganization event in which holders of Common Stock
       will receive a cash payment for each share surrendered in the
       reorganization event, each holder of an award will receive, in exchange
       for the award, a cash payment equal to the cash payment for each share
       surrendered in the reorganization event times the number of shares of
       Common Stock subject to the award minus the aggregate exercise price of
       the award,

     - awards will become exercisable or realizable, and restrictions applicable
       to a restricted stock award or other award will lapse, in whole or in
       part, prior to or upon the reorganization event,

     - in connection with a liquidation or dissolution of the Company, awards
       will convert into the right to receive liquidation proceeds, net of any
       exercise price, or

     - any combination of the above.

     If any award expires or is terminated, surrendered, canceled or forfeited,
the unused shares of Common Stock covered by the award will again be available
for grant under the 2004 Plan, subject, however, in the case of incentive stock
options, to any limitations under the Code.

  Amendment or Termination

     No award may be made under the 2004 Plan after February 11, 2014, but
awards previously granted may extend beyond that date. The Board of Directors
may at any time amend, suspend or terminate the 2004 Plan, except that, to the
extent determined by the Board of Directors, no amendment requiring stockholder
approval under applicable legal, regulatory or listing requirements will become
effective until stockholder approval is obtained.

     If the Company's stockholders do not approve the adoption of the 2004 Plan,
the 2004 Plan will not go into effect, and the Company will not grant any awards
under the 2004 Plan. In that event, the Board of Directors will consider whether
to adopt alternative arrangements based on its assessment of the needs of the
Company.
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     The 2004 Plan provides for the issuance of up to 4,000,000 shares of Common
Stock, which the Company currently believes will be sufficient for awards to be
made during the next two years. The 2004 Plan does not contain an "evergreen"
provision that would periodically increase the number of shares available under
the plan without shareholder approval.

FEDERAL INCOME TAX CONSEQUENCES

     The following is a summary of the United States federal income tax
consequences that generally will arise with respect to Awards granted under the
2004 Plan. This summary is based on the federal tax laws in effect as of the
date of this proxy statement. Changes to these laws could alter the tax
consequences described below.

  Incentive Stock Options

     An optionee will not have income upon the grant of an incentive stock
option. Also, except as described below, an optionee will not have income upon
exercise of an incentive stock option if the optionee has been employed by the
Company or its corporate parent or 50% or more-owned corporate subsidiary at all
times beginning with the option grant date and ending three months before the
date the optionee exercises the option. If the optionee has not been so employed
during that time, then the optionee will be taxed as described below under
"Nonstatutory Stock Options." The exercise of an incentive stock option may
subject the optionee to the alternative minimum tax.

     An optionee will have income upon the sale of the stock acquired under an
incentive stock option at a profit (if sales proceeds exceed the exercise
price). The type of income will depend on when the optionee sells the stock. If
a optionee sells the stock more than two years after the option was granted and
more than one year after the option was exercised, then all of the profit will
be long-term capital gain. If an optionee sells the stock prior to satisfying
these waiting periods, then the optionee will have engaged in a disqualifying
disposition and a portion of the profit will be ordinary income and a portion
may be capital gain. This capital gain will be long-term if the optionee has
held the stock for more than one year and otherwise will be short-term. If a
optionee sells the stock at a loss (sales proceeds are less than the exercise
price), then the loss will be a capital loss. This capital loss will be
long-term if the optionee held the stock for more than one year and otherwise
will be short-term.

  Non-statutory Stock Options

     An optionee will not have income upon the grant of a non-statutory stock
option. An optionee will have compensation income upon the exercise of a
non-statutory stock option equal to the value of the stock on the day the
optionee exercised the option less the exercise price. Upon sale of the stock,
the optionee will have capital gain or loss equal to the difference between the
sales proceeds and the value of the stock on the day the option was exercised.
This capital gain or loss will be long-term if the optionee has held the stock
for more than one year and otherwise will be short-term.

  Stock Appreciation Rights

     An optionee will not have taxable income upon the grant of a stock
appreciation right. An optionee generally will recognize compensation income
upon the exercise of a stock appreciation right equal to the amount of the cash
and the fair market value of any stock received. Upon the sale of the stock, the
optionee will have capital gain or loss equal to the difference between the
sales proceeds and the value of the stock on the day the stock appreciation
right was exercised. This capital gain or loss will be long-term if the optionee
held the stock for more than one year and otherwise will be short-term.

  Restricted Stock Awards

     An optionee will not have income upon the grant of restricted stock unless
an election under Section 83(b) of the Code is made within 30 days of the date
of grant. If a timely 83(b) election is made, then an optionee will have
compensation income equal to the value of the stock less the purchase price.
When the stock is sold, the optionee will have capital gain or loss equal to the
difference between the sales proceeds and

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the value of the stock on the date of grant. If the optionee does not make an
83(b) election, then when the stock vests the optionee will have compensation
income equal to the value of the stock on the vesting date less the purchase
price. When the stock is sold, the optionee will have capital gain or loss equal
to the sales proceeds less the value of the stock on the vesting date. Any
capital gain or loss will be long-term if the optionee held the stock for more
than one year and otherwise will be short-term.

  Other Stock-Based Awards

     The tax consequences associated with any other stock-based award granted
under the 2004 Plan will vary depending on the specific terms of the award.
Among the relevant factors are whether or not the award has a readily
ascertainable fair market value, whether or not the award is subject to
forfeiture provisions or restrictions on transfer, the nature of the property to
be received by the optionee under the award and the optionee's holding period
and tax basis for the award or underlying Common Stock.

  Tax Consequences to the Company

     There will be no tax consequences to the Company except that the Company
will be entitled to a deduction when an optionee has compensation income. Any
such deduction will be subject to the limitations of Section 162(m) of the Code.

                              CORPORATE GOVERNANCE

     The Company is committed to strong and effective corporate governance
because it believes that it leads to long-term value for its stockholders.
During the past year, the Company reviewed and strengthened its corporate
governance practices. The Company's goal is to embody the "best practice" in all
areas of corporate governance. The Company has adopted a Code of Business
Conduct and Ethics that applies to all directors and employees including its
principal executive officer, principal accounting officer or controller, or
persons performing similar functions. The Company intends to disclose on its
website any amendments to, or waivers from, its Code of Business Conduct and
Ethics that it is required to disclose pursuant to the disclosure requirements
of Item 10 of Form 8-K and the requirements of the NASDAQ Stock Market.

     For a copy of Netegrity's Audit Committee charter, Compensation Committee
charter, Nomination and Governance Committee charter, Corporate Governance
Guidelines and Code of Business Conduct and Ethics, please visit our corporate
website at www.netegrity.com or write to: Secretary of the Company, Netegrity,
Inc., 201 Jones Road, Waltham, Massachusetts 02451.

BOARD OF DIRECTORS AND MEETINGS

     The business affairs of the Company are conducted under the direction of
the Board. In satisfying its responsibilities, the Board is authorized to retain
its own advisors to assist and advise the Board and its committees.

     The role of the Board is to effectively govern the affairs of the Company
for the benefit of its stockholders. The Board strives to ensure the success and
continuity of the Company's business through the appointment of qualified
management. The Board also seeks to ensure that the Company's activities are
conducted in a responsible and ethical manner. The Company's Corporate
Governance Guidelines provide that Board members should consider the number of
other public company boards on which they serve so that they are able to devote
adequate time to their duties to the Company.

     The Board held nine meetings during the year ended December 31, 2003. Each
director attended at least 75% of all meetings held by the Board and committees
of the Board on which he served during 2003 with the exception of Mr. Eric
Giler, who attended at least 66% of the Board meetings.

     The Company's Corporate Governance Guidelines provide that directors are
expected to attend annual meetings of stockholders. All directors attended the
2003 annual meeting of stockholders.

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INDEPENDENT DIRECTORS AND LEAD DIRECTOR

     With the exception of Mr. Bycoff, who is an employee of the Company, and
Mr. Michael Mark, the Board has determined that all of the members of the Board
of Directors are independent as defined under the rules of the NASDAQ Stock
Market that become applicable to the Company on the date of the Meeting.
Independent directors do not receive consulting, legal or other fees from the
Company other than compensation for services as a member of the Board or a
committee of the Board. Mr. Bycoff does not participate in any action of the
Board relating to his executive compensation plans and is not present during any
discussions of his compensation.

     The Board has established the position of Lead Director, which is currently
held by Mr. Lenihan. Independent directors meet on a regular basis apart from
Mr. Bycoff and management representatives, and the Lead Director is responsible
for chairing these executive sessions.

BOARD COMMITTEES

     The Board of Directors has established three standing committees -- Audit,
Compensation and Nomination and Governance. Each of these committees has a
written charter approved by the Board. Current copies of each committee's
charter are posted on the Corporate Governance section of the Company's website,
www.netegrity.com. In addition, a copy of the Audit Committee charter, as in
effect on the date of this proxy statement, is attached to this proxy statement
as Appendix "A".

     The Board has determined that all of the members of each of the Board's
three standing committees are independent as defined under the rules of the
NASDAQ Stock Market that become applicable to the Company on the date of the
Meeting, including, in the case of all members of the Audit Committee, the
additional independence requirements of Rule 10A-3 under the Exchange Act. In
addition, all of the members of the Audit Committee are independent as defined
by the rules of the NASDAQ Stock Market that apply to the Company until the date
of the Meeting.

     Each committee evaluates its performance on an annual basis and reviews and
periodically (in the case of the Audit Committee at least annually) assesses the
adequacy of its charter. Each Committee is permitted by its charter to retain
independent consultants to advise and assist it in its duties. The members of
the committees are identified below.

AUDIT COMMITTEE

     The Audit Committee is currently composed of Messrs. Maheu, Chairman, and
Wagner, and Ms. Bergeron. The Audit Committee held seven meetings during 2003.

     The Board has determined that Mr. Maheu is an "audit committee financial
expert" as defined in Item 401(h) of Regulation S-K.

     The duties and responsibilities of the Audit Committee include the
following:

     - appointing, approving the compensation of, and assessing the independence
       of the Company's independent auditor;

     - overseeing the work of the Company's independent auditor, including the
       receipt and consideration of certain reports from independent auditors;

     - reviewing and discussing with management and the independent auditors the
       Company's audited financial statements;

     - monitoring the Company's internal controls over financial reporting,
       disclosure controls and procedures and code of business conduct and
       ethics;

     - establishing procedures for the receipt and retention of
       accounting-related complaints and concerns; and

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     - preparing the audit committee report required by SEC rules (which is
       included on page "16" of this proxy statement).

COMPENSATION COMMITTEE

     The Compensation Committee is currently composed of Messrs. Wagner,
Chairman, and Lenihan and Ms. Bergeron. The Compensation Committee held four
meetings during 2003.

     The duties and responsibilities of the Compensation Committee include the
following:

     - annually reviewing the corporate goals and objectives relevant to CEO
       compensation;

     - recommending to the Board the CEO's compensation;

     - reviewing, and making recommendations to the Board with respect to, the
       compensation of the Company's other executive officers;

     - overseeing and administering the Company's cash and equity incentive
       plans; and

     - reviewing and making recommendations to the Board with respect to
       director compensation.

NOMINATION AND GOVERNANCE COMMITTEE

     The Nomination and Governance Committee is currently composed of Messrs.
Lenihan, Chairman, Giler and Maheu. The Nomination and Governance Committee held
four meetings during 2003.

     The duties and responsibilities of the Nomination and Governance Committee
include the following:

     - identifying individuals qualified to become Board members;

     - recommending to the Board the persons to be nominated for election as
       directors and to each of the Board's committees;

     - reviewing and making recommendations to the Board with respect to CEO
       succession planning;

     - developing and recommending to the Board corporate governance principles;
       and

     - overseeing an annual evaluation of the Board.

     The Nomination and Governance Committee has developed a set of Corporate
Governance Guidelines (the "Guidelines") applicable to the Board. The Nomination
and Governance Committee is responsible for reviewing the Guidelines and
reporting and making recommendations to the Board concerning corporate
governance matters. Among other matters, the Guidelines established the
following governing principles:

     - a majority of the members of the Board are to be independent directors as
       defined by the NASDAQ Stock Market, except as otherwise permitted by
       NASDAQ rules;

     - the Board and committees shall have access to management and independent
       advisors;

     - the Board and its members shall be subject to annual self-evaluation and
       assessment;

     - the Board shall review the Company's fundamental operating, financial and
       other corporate plans, strategies and objectives;

     - the Board may designate a Lead Director in the event the Chairman of the
       Board is not an independent director;

     - independent directors shall meet at least twice a year to discuss, among
       other matters, the performance of the CEO, and at other times at the
       request of any independent director, apart from other Board members and
       management representatives, and the Lead Director, if any, shall be
       responsible for running the meetings;

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     - the CEO shall make available to the Board his or her recommendations on
       succession planning; and

     - directors are expected to attend the annual meeting of stockholders.

DIRECTOR CANDIDATES

     The process followed by the Nomination and Governance Committee to identify
and evaluate director candidates includes using an executive search firm,
requests to Board members and others for recommendations, meeting from time to
time to evaluate biographical information and background material relating to
potential candidates, and interviewing selected candidates by Committee members.

     In deciding whether to include a candidate in the Board's slate of
recommended director nominees, the Nomination and Governance Committee will
apply criteria set forth in the Company's Corporate Governance Guidelines. These
criteria include the candidate's integrity, business acumen, knowledge of the
Company's business and industry, experience, conflicts of interest and the
ability to act in the interests of all stockholders. The Committee does not
assign specific weight to particular criteria and no particular criterion is a
prerequisite for each prospective nominee. The Company believes that the
backgrounds and qualifications of its directors, considered as a group, should
provide a composite mix of experience, knowledge and abilities that will allow
the Board to fulfill its responsibilities.

     Stockholders may recommend individuals to the Nomination and Governance
Committee for consideration as director candidates by submitting their names to
the Nomination and Governance Committee, c/o Corporate Secretary, Netegrity,
Inc., 201 Jones Road, Waltham, MA 02451, together with appropriate biographical
information and background materials and a statement as to whether the
stockholder or group of stockholders making the recommendation has beneficially
owned more than 5% of the Common Stock for at least a year as of the date such
recommendation is made. Upon receipt of appropriate biographical and background
material, the Committee will evaluate stockholder-recommended candidates by
following substantially the same process, and applying substantially the same
criteria, as it follows for candidates submitted by others.

     Stockholders also have the right under the Company's bylaws to directly
nominate director candidates, without any action or recommendation on the part
of the Nomination and Governance Committee or the Board, by following the
procedures set forth under "Stockholder Proposals".

     At the Meeting, stockholders will be asked to consider the election of Mr.
Ronald Maheu and Ms. Sandra Bergeron, who have been nominated for election as
directors for the first time. Mr. Maheu was recommended to the Committee by an
executive officer other than the CEO and Ms. Bergeron was recommended to the
Committee by an independent search firm and the Board determined to include them
among its nominees.

STOCKHOLDER COMMUNICATIONS

     The Board will give appropriate attention to written communications that
are submitted by stockholders, and will respond if and as appropriate. Absent
unusual circumstances, the Lead Director is primarily responsible for monitoring
communications from stockholders and for providing copies or summaries of such
communications to the other directors.

     Communications are forwarded to all directors if they relate to important
substantive matters and include suggestions or comments that are important for
the directors to know. In general, communications relating to corporate
governance and long-term corporate strategy are more likely to be forwarded than
communications relating to ordinary business affairs, personal grievances and
matters as to which the Company tends to receive repetitive or duplicative
communications or matters as to which the Company would handle in the ordinary
course of business.

     Stockholders who wish to send communications on any topic to the Board
should address such communications in care of the Company's Corporate Secretary
at 201 Jones Road, Waltham, MA 02451.

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                         REPORT OF THE AUDIT COMMITTEE

     The Audit Committee has reviewed the Company's audited consolidated
financial statements for the fiscal year ended December 31, 2003 and has
discussed these consolidated financial statements with the Company's management
and the Company's independent auditors, KPMG LLP.

     The Company's management is responsible for the preparation of the
Company's financial statements and for maintaining an adequate system of
disclosure controls and procedures and internal control over financial reporting
for that purpose. The Company's independent auditors are responsible for
conducting an independent audit of the Company's annual consolidated financial
statements in accordance with generally accepted accounting principles and
issuing a report on the results of their audit. The Audit Committee is
responsible for providing independent, objective oversight of these processes.

     The Audit Committee has also discussed with KPMG LLP the matters required
by Statement on Auditing Standards 61 (Communication with Audit Committees). SAS
61 requires the Company's independent auditors to discuss with the Company's
Audit Committee, among other things,

     - methods to account for significant unusual transactions;

     - the effect of significant accounting policies in controversial or
       emerging areas for which there is a lack of authoritative guidance or
       consensus;

     - the process used by management in formulating particularly sensitive
       accounting estimates and the basis for the auditors' conclusions
       regarding the reasonableness of those estimates; and

     - disagreements with management over the application of accounting
       principles, the basis for management's accounting estimates and the
       disclosures in the consolidated financial statements.

     The Company's independent auditors also provided the Audit Committee with
the written disclosures and the letter required by Independence Standards Board
Standard No. 1 (Independence Discussions with Audit Committees). The Audit
Committee has discussed with the independent auditors their independence from
the Company.

     Based on its discussions with management and the independent auditors, and
its review of the representations and information provided by management and the
independent auditors, the Audit Committee recommended to the Company's Board of
Directors that the audited financial statements be included in the Company's
Annual Report on Form 10-K for the year ended December 31, 2003.

                                          AUDIT COMMITTEE

                                          Ronald T. Maheu, Chairman
                                          Sandra E. Bergeron
                                          Ralph B. Wagner

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                            INDEPENDENT AUDITOR FEES

     The following table summarizes the fees of KPMG LLP, our independent
auditor, billed to us for each of the last two years for audit services and
billed to us in each of the last two fiscal years for other services:



FEE CATEGORY                                                    2003       2002
------------                                                  --------   --------
                                                                   
Audit fees(1)...............................................  $262,021   $177,500
Audit-related fees(2).......................................    24,650     13,902
Tax fees(3).................................................    37,075     54,098
All other fees..............................................        --         --
                                                              --------   --------
  Total fees................................................  $323,746   $245,500
                                                              ========   ========


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(1) Audit fees consist of fees for the audit of our financial statements, the
    review of the interim financial statements included in our quarterly reports
    on Form 10-Q, and other professional services provided in connection with
    statutory and regulatory filings or engagements.

(2) Audit-related fees consist of fees for assurance and related services that
    are reasonably related to the performance of the audit and the review of our
    financial statements and which are not reported under "Audit fees". These
    services related to employee benefit audits and due diligence services
    related to an acquisition.

(3) Tax fees consist of fees for tax compliance.

  Pre-Approval Policy and Procedures

     The Audit Committee has adopted policies and procedures relating to the
approval of all audit services and all non-audit services that are to be
performed by the Company's independent auditor. This policy generally provides
that the Company will not engage its independent auditor to render audit or
non-audit services unless the service is specifically approved in advance by the
Audit Committee or the engagement is entered into pursuant to one of the
pre-approval procedures described below.

     From time to time, the Audit Committee may pre-approve specified types of
services that are expected to be provided to the Company by its independent
auditor during the next 12 months. Any such pre-approval is detailed as to the
particular service or type of services to be provided and is also generally
subject to a maximum dollar amount.

     The Audit Committee has also delegated to its Chairman the authority to
approve any audit or non-audit services to be provided to the Company by its
independent auditor. Any approval of services by the Chairman pursuant to this
delegated authority is reported on at the next meeting of the Audit Committee.

     All of KPMG's audit services listed above were approved by the Audit
Committee in accordance with the Company's pre-approval policies and procedures.

                           COMPENSATION OF DIRECTORS

     In 2003, the Company compensated each non-employee director at a rate of
$15,000 per year. Each non-employee director was also reimbursed by the Company
for his or her expenses associated with meeting attendance. In 2003, the
Chairman of the Audit Committee received an additional $15,000 per year and the
other members of the Audit Committee received an additional $5,000 per year for
their service on the Audit Committee.

     In 2004, the Company will compensate each non-employee director at a rate
of $20,000 per year. Each non-employee director will also be reimbursed by the
Company for his or her expenses associated with meeting attendance. In 2004, the
Chairman of the Audit Committee will receive an additional $15,000 per year and
the other members of the Audit Committee will each receive an additional $5,000
per year for their services on the Audit Committee. In 2004, the Chairman of the
Compensation Committee and the Chairman

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of the Nomination and Governance Committee will each receive an additional
$5,000 for their service on their respective committees.

     During the year ended December 31, 2003, each non-employee director of the
Company participated in either the 1997 Non-Employee Director Stock Option Plan
(the "1997 Plan") or the 2000 Incentive Stock Plan (the "2000 Plan"). The 1997
Plan and the 2000 Plan authorize grants of stock options to members of the Board
who are neither employees nor officers of the Company. During the year ended
December 31, 2003, Messrs. Giler, Lenihan, Mark and Wagner were each granted an
option to purchase 15,000 shares under the 2000 Plan at an exercise price of
$4.40 and Mr. Maheu was granted an option to purchase 25,000 shares under the
1997 Plan at an exercise price of $6.33.

          COMPENSATION COMMITTEE INTERLOCKS AND INSIDER PARTICIPATION

     The members of our Compensation Committee during 2003 included Messrs.
Wagner, Chairman, Lenihan, and Mark. During 2003, no executive officer of the
Company served as a director or member of the Company's Compensation Committee
or the compensation committee (or other committee serving an equivalent
function) of any other entity where executive officers served as a member of the
Company's Board or Compensation Committee.

     During 2003, the Company paid approximately $109,000 for marketing services
to a company, the principal stockholder of which is the son-in-law of Mr. Mark,
a member of the Company's Board.

                 CERTAIN RELATIONSHIPS AND RELATED TRANSACTIONS

     In May 1996, Mr. Bycoff, the Company's Chairman of the Board, Chief
Executive Officer and President, exercised an option to purchase 300,000 shares
of the Company's Common Stock for an aggregate price of $200,000. The Board
approved a loan of $200,000 to Mr. Bycoff for payment of the exercise price,
which was evidenced by a note, the repayment of which was secured by the 300,000
shares of Common Stock until May 2002, when the security obligation was removed.
This full recourse note bears interest at a rate of 7% per annum and is due and
payable on demand by the Company at the discretion of the Board. Approximately
$100,000 in principal on the loan remains due as of February 27, 2004. The
largest aggregate amount of indebtedness of Mr. Bycoff to the Company since
January 1, 2003 was approximately $125,400.

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                              SUMMARY COMPENSATION

     The following table sets forth the annual and long-term compensation for
services in all capacities to the Company for the three years ended December 31,
2003, of those persons who (i) served as the Chief Executive Officer of the
Company during any part of the year ended December 31, 2003, (ii) the four most
highly compensated executive officers of the Company at December 31, 2003 whose
annual compensation and bonus exceeded $100,000 (the "named executive
officers"):



                                                      ANNUAL COMPENSATION(1)   LONG-TERM COMPENSATION
                                           CALENDAR   ----------------------         AWARDS(2)
NAME AND PRINCIPAL POSITION                  YEAR     SALARY($)    BONUS($)        OPTIONS(#)(3)
---------------------------                --------   ----------   ---------   ----------------------
                                                                   
Barry N. Bycoff..........................    2003      $375,000    $102,000          1,261,636(3)
  Chairman of the Board, Chief               2002       375,000      25,000            425,000(4)
  Executive Officer & President              2001       375,000      20,000            100,000(4)
William C. Bartow........................    2003      $200,000    $ 44,795            350,000(5)
  Vice President of Engineering              2002       170,000           0             70,000(4)
                                             2001       170,000      15,000             50,000(4)
Regina O. Sommer.........................    2003      $200,000    $ 27,000            275,000(6)
  Chief Financial Officer and Treasurer      2002       200,000           0                  0
                                             2001         2,081           0            200,000(4)
Deepak Taneja............................    2003      $210,000    $ 18,000            270,000(7)
  Chief Technology Officer                   2002       210,000           0            145,000(4)
                                             2001       202,000      15,000             50,000(4)
Thomas L. Thimot.........................    2003      $250,080    $ 85,766            136,000
  Vice President of Sales and Service        2002        77,105      50,000            300,000


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(1) Salary and bonus amounts include amounts earned in 2003. In the case of Mr.
    Thimot, bonus amounts include sales commissions. Excludes perquisites and
    other personal benefits, the aggregate annual amount of which for each
    officer is less than the lesser of $50,000 or 10% of the total salary and
    bonus reported.

(2) The Company did not grant any restricted stock awards or stock appreciation
    rights or make any long-term incentive plan payouts to the named executive
    officers during the three years ended December 31, 2002.

(3) Includes 750,000 shares underlying options granted in connection with a
    tender offer statement filed on August 23, 2002, and as subsequently
    amended, with the Securities and Exchange Commission in connection with
    certain stock options outstanding under non-director stock plans (the August
    2002 Offer to Exchange). The number of shares granted was equal to the
    number of shares tendered by Mr. Bycoff, except that options with an
    exercise price of $36.09 tendered by Mr. Bycoff were exchanged at a rate of
    one share underlying a new option for each two shares underlying such
    tendered options. Each new option was granted with an exercise price equal
    to the fair market value of the Common Stock on the date of the grant and is
    exercisable in accordance with a schedule based on the duration of Mr.
    Bycoff's employment with the Company.

(4) Consists of shares underlying options tendered by the optionee in connection
    with the August 2002 Offer to Exchange and which are no longer outstanding.

(5) Includes 300,000 shares underlying options granted in connection with the
    August 2002 Offer to Exchange. The number of shares granted were equal to
    the number of shares tendered by Mr. Bartow. Each new option was granted
    with an exercise price equal to the fair market value of the Common Stock on
    the date of the grant and is exercisable in accordance with a schedule based
    on the duration of Mr. Bartow's employment with the Company.

(6) Includes 200,000 shares underlying options granted in connection with the
    August 2002 Offer to Exchange. The number of shares granted was equal to the
    number of shares tendered by Ms. Sommer. Each new option was granted with an
    exercise price equal to the fair market value of the Common Stock on the
    date of the grant and is exercisable in accordance with a schedule based on
    the duration of Ms. Sommer's employment with the Company.

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(7) Includes 270,000 shares underlying options granted in connection with the
    August 2002 Offer to Exchange. The number of shares granted was equal to the
    number of shares tendered by Mr. Taneja, except that options with an
    exercise price of $36.09 tendered by Mr. Taneja were exchanged at a rate of
    one share underlying a new option for each two shares underlying such
    tendered options. Each new option was granted with an exercise price equal
    to the fair market value of the Common Stock on the date of the grant and is
    exercisable in accordance with a schedule based on the duration of Mr.
    Taneja's employment with the Company.

                        OPTION GRANTS IN THE FISCAL YEAR

     The following table sets forth grants of stock options to the named
executive officers during the fiscal year ended December 31, 2003.



                                                                                       POTENTIAL REALIZABLE VALUE
                                                                                         AT ASSUMED ANNUAL RATES
                                       PERCENT OF TOTAL                                OF STOCK PRICE APPRECIATION
                                       OPTIONS GRANTED      EXERCISE OR                    FOR OPTION TERM(2)
                         OPTIONS       TO EMPLOYEES IN      BASE PRICE    EXPIRATION   ---------------------------
NAME                    GRANTED(#)       FISCAL YEAR         ($/SHARE)       DATE           5%            10%
----                    ----------     ----------------     -----------   ----------   ------------   ------------
                                                                                    
Barry N. Bycoff.......   375,000(1)          6.2%             $ 3.62        3/25/10     $  552,639     $1,287,833
                         375,000(1)          6.2%             $ 4.55        4/25/10     $  694,615     $1,618,749
                         511,636             8.5%             $10.35       12/10/13     $2,155,773     $5,023,867
William C. Bartow.....   150,000(1)          2.5%             $ 3.62        3/25/10     $  221,056     $  515,153
                         150,000(1)          2.5%             $ 4.55        4/25/10     $  277,846     $  647,499
                          50,000             0.8%             $10.35       12/10/13     $  210,674     $  490,961
Regina O. Sommer......   100,000(1)          1.7%             $ 3.62        3/25/10     $  147,370     $  343,436
                         100,000(1)          1.7%             $ 4.55        4/25/10     $  185,230     $  431,666
                          75,000             1.2%             $10.35       12/10/13     $  316,012     $  736,442
Deepak Taneja.........   135,000(1)          2.2%             $ 3.62        3/25/10     $  198,950     $  463,638
                         135,000(1)          2.2%             $ 4.55        4/25/10     $  250,061     $  582,749
Thomas L. Thimot......   136,000             2.3%             $10.35       12/10/13     $  573,035     $1,335,414


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(1) Represents shares underlying options granted in connection with the August
    2002 Offer to Exchange. The options were granted to the named executive
    officers on two different dates. The Company granted 50% of the new options
    on March 25, 2003 and granted the remaining 50% on April 25, 2003. The
    number of shares granted to each optionee was equal to the number of shares
    tendered by each optionee, except that options with an exercise price of
    $36.09 tendered by Barry Bycoff and Deepak Taneja were exchanged at a rate
    of one share underlying a new option for each two shares underlying such
    tendered options. Each new option was granted with an exercise price equal
    to the fair market value of the Common Stock on the date of the grant and is
    exercisable in accordance with a schedule based on the duration of each
    individual's employment with the Company.

(2) Amounts reported in these columns represent amounts that may be realized
    upon exercise of the options immediately prior to the expiration of their
    term assuming the specified compound rates of appreciation (5% and 10%) on
    the market value of the Common Stock over the term of the options. These
    numbers are calculated based on rules promulgated by the Securities and
    Exchange Commission and do not reflect the Company's estimate of future
    stock price growth. Actual gains, if any, on stock option exercises and
    Common Stock holdings are dependent on the timing of such exercise and the
    future performance of the Common Stock. There can be no assurance that the
    rates of appreciation assumed in this table can be achieved or that the
    amounts reflected would be received by the individuals.

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             AGGREGATED OPTION EXERCISES AND FISCAL YEAR-END VALUES

     The following table sets forth information with respect to options to
purchase the Common Stock granted to the named executive officers, including (i)
the number of shares purchased upon exercise of options in the most recent
fiscal year, (ii) the net value realized upon such exercise, (iii) the number of
unexercised options outstanding at December 31, 2003, and (iv) the value of such
unexercised options at December 31, 2003:



                                                        NUMBER OF UNEXERCISED         VALUE OF UNEXERCISED
                                                             OPTIONS AT              IN-THE-MONEY OPTIONS AT
                           SHARES                         DECEMBER 31, 2003          DECEMBER 31, 2003($)(1)
                          ACQUIRED        VALUE      ---------------------------   ---------------------------
NAME                     ON EXERCISE   REALIZED($)   EXERCISABLE   UNEXERCISABLE   EXERCISABLE   UNEXERCISABLE
----                     -----------   -----------   -----------   -------------   -----------   -------------
                                                                               
Barry N. Bycoff........       --            --         878,750        867,886      $6,722,800     $2,155,500
William C. Bartow......       --            --         157,500        192,500      $  960,300     $  862,200
Regina O. Sommer.......       --            --          73,333        201,667      $  448,598     $  766,402
Deepak Taneja..........       --            --         169,550        128,250      $1,094,268     $  755,980
Thomas L. Thimot.......       --            --          62,499        373,501      $  468,118     $1,778,882


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(1) Based on the closing price of a share of Common Stock on the NASDAQ National
    Market on December 31, 2003 ($10.16), less the exercise price.

                      EQUITY COMPENSATION PLAN INFORMATION

     The following table provides information about the securities authorized
for issuance under the Company's equity compensation plans as of December 31,
2003.



                                            (A)                   (B)                       (C)
                                    ------------------------------------------------------------------------
                                         NUMBER OF                                  NUMBER OF SECURITIES
                                     SECURITIES TO BE                             REMAINING AVAILABLE FOR
                                        ISSUED UPON        WEIGHTED-AVERAGE     FUTURE ISSUANCE UNDER EQUITY
                                        EXERCISE OF        EXERCISE PRICE OF         COMPENSATION PLANS
                                    OUTSTANDING OPTIONS   OUTSTANDING OPTIONS   (EXCLUDING SHARES REFLECTED
PLAN CATEGORY                          AND WARRANTS          AND WARRANTS              IN COLUMN (A))
-------------                       -------------------   -------------------   ----------------------------
                                                                       
Equity compensation plans approved
  by stockholders(1)..............       5,804,332               $5.13                   2,272,645(2)
Equity compensation plans not
  approved by
  stockholders(3)(4)..............       1,040,721               $7.91                     104,447
                                         ---------                                       ---------
Total.............................       6,845,053               $5.53                   2,377,092
                                         =========                                       =========


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(1) Consists of the following equity compensation plans: the 1991 Director Stock
    Plan, the 1994 Stock Plan, the 1997 Stock Option Plan, as amended, the 1997
    Non-Employee Director Stock Option Plan, the 2000 Stock Incentive Plan and
    the 2002 Employee Stock Purchase Plan (the "2002 ESPP"). Shares of Common
    Stock are available for issuance under each of these plans, except for the
    1991 Director Stock Plan.

(2) Includes an aggregate of 380,778 shares remaining to be issued under the
    2002 ESPP, of which up to 112,000 shares are issuable in connection with the
    current offering period, which ends May 15, 2004.

(3) Consists of the following equity compensation plans; the 2001 Interim
    General Stock Incentive Plan, the 2002 Employee Retention General Incentive
    Plan and the 2002 General Stock Incentive Plan. Shares of Common Stock are
    available for issuance under each of these plans, except for the 2001
    Interim General Stock Incentive Plan.

(4) Includes warrants issued to a customer to purchase an aggregate of 48,469
    shares of Common Stock at exercise prices ranging from $14.00 to $62.50 per
    share, and expiration dates through December 15, 2004.

     Subsequent to December 31, 2003, the Company granted to employees and
directors options to purchase approximately 837,000 shares of Common Stock. Each
option was granted with an exercise price equal to the

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fair market value of the Common Stock on the date of the grant and is
exercisable in accordance with the terms of the plan under which it was granted.

TEN YEAR OPTION REPRICINGS

     The following table sets forth information regarding options that were
exchanged pursuant to option exchange agreements. The Compensation Committee
approved the option exchanges in order to restore the incentive value of such
options.



                                                                                                 LENGTH OF
                                        NUMBER OF       MARKET                                   ORIGINAL
                                          SHARES       PRICE OF     EXERCISE PRICE                OPTION
                                        UNDERLYING     STOCK AT      OF OPTION AT      NEW        TERM AT
                                         OPTIONS       TIME OF         TIME OF       EXERCISE     DATE OF
                              DATE(1)    REPRICED    REPRICING(2)     REPRICING       PRICE      REPRICING
                              -------   ----------   ------------   --------------   --------   -----------
                                                                              
Current Executive Officers
Barry N. Bycoff.............  3/25/03    225,000        $2.40           $36.09        $3.62      12/10/09
                              4/25/03    225,000        $2.40           $36.09        $4.55      12/10/09
                              3/25/03     50,000        $2.40           $24.35        $3.62        8/7/11
                              4/25/03     50,000        $2.40           $24.35        $4.55        8/7/11
                              3/25/03    212,500        $2.40           $15.37        $3.62       3/15/09
                              4/25/03    212,500        $2.40           $15.37        $4.55       3/15/09
William C. Bartow...........  3/25/03     25,000        $2.40           $24.35        $3.62        8/7/11
                              4/25/03     25,000        $2.40           $24.35        $4.55        8/7/11
                              3/25/03     90,000        $2.40           $17.09        $3.62      10/11/09
                              4/25/03     90,000        $2.40           $17.09        $4.55      10/11/09
                              3/25/03     35,000        $2.40           $15.37        $3.62       3/15/09
                              4/25/03     35,000        $2.40           $15.37        $4.55       3/15/09
Regina O. Sommer............  3/25/03    100,000        $2.40           $20.07        $3.62      12/17/11
                              4/25/03    100,000        $2.40           $20.07        $4.55      12/17/11
Deepak Taneja...............  3/25/03     75,000        $2.40           $36.09        $3.62      12/10/09
                              4/25/03     75,000        $2.40           $36.09        $4.55      12/10/09
                              3/25/03     25,000        $2.40           $24.35        $3.62        8/7/11
                              4/25/03     25,000        $2.40           $24.35        $4.55        8/7/11
                              3/25/03     72,500        $2.40           $15.37        $3.62       3/15/09
                              4/25/03     72,500        $2.40           $15.37        $4.55       3/15/09
Former Executive Officer
James Rosen.................  3/25/03     75,000        $2.40           $36.09        $3.62      12/10/09
                              4/25/03     75,000        $2.40           $36.09        $4.55      12/10/09
                              3/25/03     25,000        $2.40           $24.35        $3.62        8/7/11
                              4/25/03     25,000        $2.40           $24.35        $4.55        8/7/11
                              3/25/03     37,500        $2.40           $15.37        $3.62       3/15/09
                              4/25/03     37,500        $2.40           $15.37        $4.55       3/15/09


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(1) The shares underlying options were granted to the executive officers on two
    different dates. The Company granted 50% of the new options on March 25,
    2003 and granted the remaining 50% on April 25, 2003. The number of shares
    granted to each optionee was equal to the number of shares tendered by each
    optionee, except that options with an exercise price of $36.09 tendered by
    Barry Bycoff and Deepak Taneja were exchanged at a rate of one share
    underlying a new option for each two shares underlying such tendered
    options. Each new option was granted at fair market value on the date of the
    grant and is exercisable in accordance with a schedule based on the duration
    of each individual's employment with the Company.

(2) Represents the closing price of the Company's common stock on September 23,
    2003 as reported by the NASDAQ Stock Market.

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       2001 INTERIM GENERAL STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN, 2002 EMPLOYEE RETENTION
          GENERAL INCENTIVE PLAN AND 2002 GENERAL STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN

     On December 12, 2001, the Board adopted the 2001 Interim General Stock
Incentive Plan ("2001 Interim Plan") pursuant to which non-qualified stock
options for up to 600,000 shares of Common Stock may be granted to employees. On
March 15, 2002, the Board adopted the 2002 Employee Retention General Incentive
Plan ("2002 Retention Plan") pursuant to which non-qualified stock options for
up to 263,000 shares of Common Stock may be granted to employees. On July 8,
2002, the Board adopted the 2002 General Stock Incentive Plan ("2002 Stock
Plan") pursuant to which non-qualified stock options or stock awards for up to
350,000 shares of Common Stock may be granted to employees. Options may be
granted under the 2001 Interim Plan, 2002 Retention Plan and 2002 Stock Plan
(collectively, the "Plans") to any employee of the Company or any of its
subsidiaries other than an employee who is either (i) an executive officer of
the Company for purposes of Section 16 of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934,
as amended, (ii) determined by the Company to be a covered employee for purposes
of Section 162(m) of the Code, thereby resulting in the award likely being
subject to the tax deduction limitations of Section 162(m) of the Code, or (iii)
determined by the Company to constitute an "officer" or a "director" for
purposes of Rule 4350(i)(1)(A) of the rules of the National Association of
Securities Dealers, Inc.

     The Board is authorized to adopt, amend and repeal the administrative rules
relating to the Plans and to interpret the provisions of the Plans. The grant of
stock options under these Plans shall be on such terms and conditions as deemed
appropriate by the Board, provided that the terms and conditions of the options
otherwise comply with all provisions of the Plans.

     The Board has the authority to select the recipients of options under the
Plans and determine (i) the persons eligible for options under the Plans, (ii)
the dates upon which such options become exercisable, (iii) the exercise price
of options (which may not be less than the fair market value of the Common Stock
on the date of grant), and (iv) the duration of the options (which may not
exceed 7 years).

     If any option granted under the Plans expires or is terminated,
surrendered, canceled or forfeited, the unused shares of Common Stock covered by
such option will again be available for grant under the Plans.

     The terms of the Plans are substantially similar except that no additional
options may be granted under the 2002 Retention Plan or the 2001 Interim Plan.
No options may be granted under the 2002 Stock Plan after July 8, 2012.

            COMPENSATION COMMITTEE REPORT ON EXECUTIVE COMPENSATION

     The Compensation Committee of the Board of Directors is responsible for
establishing and overseeing the compensation policies for executive officers.
The Compensation Committee makes recommendations to the Board regarding the
annual salaries and bonuses of and stock option grants to the executive officers
of the Company. Currently the Compensation Committee consists of Messrs. Wagner,
Chairman, and Lenihan and Ms. Bergeron. From January 1, 2003 to May 15, 2003,
the Compensation Committee consisted of Messrs. Mark, Chairman, and Wagner. From
May 16, 2003 to December 31, 2003, the Compensation Committee consisted of
Messrs. Wagner, Mark and Lenihan.

     The Compensation Committee retains an independent compensation advisory
firm to provide comparative data and advice on trends in compensation practices.
Based on this information and the goals of the Company, the Compensation
Committee devises a compensation package for executive officers, including the
Chief Executive Officer, which is designed to:

     - enhance profitability of the Company and stockholder value;

     - align compensation with the Company's annual and long-term performance
       goals;

     - reward corporate performance;

     - recognize individual initiative, achievement and hard work;

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     - assist the Company in attracting and retaining qualified executive
       officers; and

     - retain and motivate existing officers to perform.

     In order to attract and retain qualified executives, the Compensation
Committee strives to make the compensation package competitive with the
compensation offered by comparable companies with which the Company competes for
talent.

     The compensation package for executives is generally made up of three
components:

     - base salary

     - performance-based bonus compensation; and

     - long-term incentive compensation in the form of stock options.

     BASE SALARY.  The Compensation Committee endeavors to set base salaries at
levels comparable to the amounts paid to executives with similar qualifications,
experience and responsibilities at other technology companies. On an annual
basis, the Compensation Committee reviews base salaries for all executive
officers, including the Chief Executive Officer, and determines if any
adjustments should be made based on the competitive data and the individual's
performance.

     PERFORMANCE-BASED BONUS COMPENSATION.  On an annual basis, the Board
establishes financial and operational goals for the Company. Performance-based
bonuses for executive officers are based upon management's success in meeting
these goals.

     STOCK OPTIONS.  Stock options are designed to provide long-term incentives
to executive officers, to encourage them to remain with the Company and to
develop and maintain a significant, long-term interest in the Company's Common
Stock, which in turn motivates these executives to focus on long-term
enhancement in stockholder value. Generally, stock option awards vest ratably
over a predetermined period of time, with an exercise price equal to the fair
market value of the Company's Common Stock on the date of the grant. Therefore,
the executive earns no compensation with respect to these options unless the
Company's share price increases.

     In determining actual awards, the Compensation Committee considers the
external competitive market, past option grants, the contribution of each
individual, and the need to retain the individual.

     In August 2002, the Company offered to all of its employees the opportunity
to exchange certain outstanding options to purchase shares of Common Stock for
new options to purchase shares of Common Stock. The offer to exchange excluded
directors and non-employees of the Company, expired on September 23, 2002 and
provided for the grant of new options on two different dates. The Company
granted 50% of the new options on March 25, 2003 and 50% of the new options on
April 25, 2003 to employees that were continuously and actively employed from
the date the employee tendered eligible options for exchange to the date of the
grant of the new options. Mr. Bycoff, Mr. Bartow, Ms. Sommer and Mr. Taneja
elected to participate in the option exchanges. See the table under the heading
"Ten-Year Option Repricings" included elsewhere in this Proxy Statement.

     The number of shares underlying the new options was equal to the number of
shares underlying the cancelled eligible options, except that certain options
granted to certain executive officers were exchanged at a rate of one share
underlying a new option for each two shares underlying the tendered options. The
exercise price per share of the new options was equal to the fair market value
of one share of common stock on the date of grant of the new options as
determined in accordance with the applicable option plans. Each new option will
vest in accordance with a schedule tied to the length of time of an individual's
employment with the Company.

     Because the market value of the Common Stock had fallen substantially below
the exercise price of most outstanding options, the value of such stock options
as means of motivating and retaining employees, including Mr. Bycoff, Mr.
Bartow, Ms. Sommer and Mr. Taneja, had been significantly diminished. The
Company Committee recommended, and our Board approved, the option exchange
because they believed that the Company needed to restore the value of the
existing stock options as a means of motivating and retaining

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employees in order to promote the successful implementation of the Company's
strategies. The stock options surrendered by Mr. Bycoff, Mr. Bartow, Ms. Sommer
and Mr. Taneja had exercise prices ranging from $15.37 to $36.09 per share,
significantly above the market price of the Common Stock at the time of the
offer to exchange. On the effective dates of the exchange, the closing market
price of the Common Stock as reported by the NASDAQ Stock Market was $3.62 and
$4.55, respectively. Accordingly, the Compensation Committee believed that the
option exchange program was an appropriate mechanism to create performance
incentives and retain these executives

2003 COMPENSATION.

     For 2003, the Compensation Committee determined that the base salary of the
executive officers, including the Chief Executive Officer, was competitive with
the marketplace. The base salary for 2003 of Barry N. Bycoff, the Chief
Executive Officer and President of the Company, was $375,000 and Mr. Bycoff was
granted a $25,000 retention bonus, in accordance with the terms of his Executive
Employment Agreement.

     In establishing Mr. Bycoff's 2003 performance-based bonus compensation, the
Compensation Committee established objective measures against which Mr. Bycoff's
performance was measured, including achievement of certain revenue goals and
other operational goals relating to, among other things, revenue growth,
operating income and earnings per share. The Company achieved a number of the
specified goals in 2003 and as a result Mr. Bycoff received a performance-based
bonus of $77,000.

     In making recommendations for specific grants of options to executives, the
Compensation Committee evaluated each executive officer's total equity
compensation package in relation to competitive data provided by the independent
compensation advisory firm. The Compensation Committee reviewed the past option
grants to each executive officer, including vesting, exercise price and the
current value of the unvested options. Based on that review, the Compensation
Committee granted Mr. Bycoff options to purchase 511,636 shares of the Company's
Common Stock at an exercise price of $10.35 per share, the fair market value of
the Common Stock at the date of grant.

     Section 162(m) of the Code generally disallows a tax deduction to public
companies for certain compensation in excess of $1 million paid to the company's
Chief Executive Officer and the four other most highly compensated executive
officers. Certain compensation, including qualified performance-based
compensation, will not be subject to the deduction limit if certain requirements
are met. The Compensation Committee reviews the potential effect of Section
162(m) periodically and uses its judgment to authorize compensation payments
that may be subject to the limit when the Compensation Committee believes such
payments are appropriate and in the best interests of the Company and its
stockholders, after taking into consideration changing business conditions and
the performance of its employees.

                                          COMPENSATION COMMITTEE

                                          Ralph B. Wagner, Chairman
                                          Lawrence D. Lenihan, Jr.
                                          Sandra E. Bergeron

                      EMPLOYMENT AND RETENTION AGREEMENTS

     The Company has entered into an Executive Employment Agreement with Mr.
Bycoff. The agreement is for an initial three-year term ending in May 2005, and
renews automatically for additional one-year periods unless terminated. The
agreement provides for a base salary of $375,000, an annual retention bonus of
$25,000 and incentive bonus compensation of up to 75% of base salary, payable
upon the attainment of performance milestones mutually agreed to by Mr. Bycoff
and the Compensation Committee prior to each fiscal year. The agreement also
provides for life and disability insurance coverage. The agreement provides that
in the event of a change of control of the Company (as defined in the
agreement), if Mr. Bycoff's employment is terminated by the Company without
cause (as defined in the agreement), Mr. Bycoff will be entitled to either 36
months or 24 months base salary and bonus, depending on the particular
circumstances of the termination, and
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24 months continuation of life and disability insurance benefits. In the event
of termination in connection with a change in control, 50% of Mr. Bycoff's
unvested stock options will automatically vest. In the event the Company does
not renew the agreement after its initial three-year term, Mr. Bycoff will be
entitled to 12 months continued payment of base salary and bonus.

     The Company has entered into Executive Retention Agreements with the each
of the named executive officers. These agreements provide that in the event of a
change of control of the Company (as defined in the agreements), if the
executive officer's employment is terminated by the Company or by the executive
officer for good reason (as defined in the agreements), the executive officer
will be entitled to six months base salary and bonus, 12 months continuation of
benefits and the acceleration of outstanding stock options so that the number of
shares that would otherwise have become vested during the two-year period
following the date of termination will immediately become exercisable.

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                               PERFORMANCE GRAPH

     The following graph compares the total cumulative shareholder returns on
common stock over the past five fiscal years for the Company with the total
cumulative returns of The NASDAQ Stock Market (U.S.) and their Peer Group from
December 31, 1998 through December 31, 2003. The Company has traditionally used
a peer group composed of NASDAQ listed companies in *SIC Code 7300-7399 Business
Services. The graph assumes an investment of $100 in the Common Stock on
12/31/1998, and the reinvestment of all dividends.

The stock price performance included in this graph is not necessarily indicative
of future stock price performance.

                 COMPARISON OF 5 YEAR CUMULATIVE TOTAL RETURN*
          AMONG NETEGRITY, INC., THE NASDAQ STOCK MARKET (U.S.) INDEX,
                                AND A PEER GROUP

                              [PERFORMANCE GRAPH]



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                        12/98     12/99      12/00      12/01     12/02     12/03
----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
                                                         
 Netegrity, Inc.       100.00    1320.30    1891.21    673.36    113.14    353.37
 NASDAQ Stock Market
  (U.S.)               100.00     185.43     111.83     88.76     61.37     91.75
 Peer Group            100.00     210.27     106.54     83.64     57.37     75.39


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* $100 invested on 12/31/98 in stock or index-including reinvestment of
  dividends. Fiscal year ending December 31.

                     CHANGE IN INDEPENDENT PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS

     On June 20, 2002, the Company terminated the engagement of Arthur Andersen
LLP ("AA") as the Company's independent public accountants. This decision was
approved by the Audit Committee and by the Board of Directors. AA's report on
the Company's consolidated financial statements for the fiscal year ended
December 31, 2001 did not contain an adverse opinion, a disclaimer of opinion or
any qualifications or modifications related to uncertainty, limitation of audit
scope or accounting principles. From March 31, 2001, the date of AA's
engagement, through June 20, 2002, the date of termination of the engagement,
there were

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no disagreements with AA on any matter of accounting principles or practices,
financial statement disclosure or auditing scope or procedure that, if not
resolved to AA's satisfaction, would have caused AA to make reference to the
subject matter of the disagreement in connection with AA's reports.

     During AA's engagement, there were no reportable events as defined in Item
304(a)(1)(v) of Regulation S-K promulgated by the SEC.

     On June 26, 2002, the Company engaged KPMG LLP ("KPMG") as its independent
public accountants for the year ending December 31, 2002. The engagement was
approved by the Audit Committee and by the Board. The Company did not consult
with KPMG during the year ended December 31, 2001 nor during the subsequent
period to the date of such engagement regarding either (i) the application of
accounting principles to a specified transaction or transactions, either
completed or proposed, or (ii) the type of audit opinion KPMG might render on
the Company's consolidated financial statements.

     KPMG served as the Company's independent public accountants for the year
ending December 31, 2003. The Company has selected KPMG as its independent
public accountants for the year ending December 31, 2004.

     Representatives of KPMG are expected to be present at the annual meeting,
will have the opportunity to make a statement if they desire to do so and are
expected to be available to respond to appropriate questions.

            SECTION 16(a) BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP REPORTING COMPLIANCE

     Section 16(a) of the Exchange Act requires the Company's directors,
executive officers, and persons who own more than 10% of a registered class of
the Company's equity securities (collectively, "Reporting Persons") to file
initial reports of ownership and reports of changes in ownership of Common Stock
with the SEC. Such persons are required by SEC regulations to furnish the
Company with copies of all Section 16(a) forms they file.

     Based solely on its review of the copies of reports filed by reporting
persons pursuant to Section 16(a) of the Exchange Act or written representations
from reporting persons that no Form 5 filing was required for such persons, the
Company believes that, during the year ended December 31, 2003, all filing
required to be made by its reporting persons were timely made in accordance with
the requirements of the Exchange Act, except as follows: Mr. Rosen, Mr. Bartow,
Mr. Bycoff, Mr. Taneja and Ms. Sommer were each not timely in filing one report
reflecting one option grant.

                             STOCKHOLDER PROPOSALS

     Proposals of stockholders submitted pursuant to Rule 14a-8 under the
Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as amended for inclusion in the proxy statement
for the 2005 Annual Meeting of Stockholders must be received at the Company's
principal executive offices not later than December 1, 2004.

     Written notice of a stockholder proposal to be raised at its 2004 Annual
Meeting submitted outside the process of Rule 14a-8 of the Securities Exchange
Act of 1934 must have been received at the Company's principal executive offices
between January 17, 2004 and February 16, 2004, and for consideration at the
2005 Annual Meeting of Stockholders must be received between January 26, 2005
and February 25, 2005, in order to be considered timely under the Securities
Exchange Act of 1934.

                                 OTHER BUSINESS

     The Board knows of no business that will be presented for consideration at
the Meeting other than those items stated above. If any other business should
come before the Meeting, votes may be cast pursuant to proxies in respect to any
such business in the best judgment of the person or persons acting under the
proxies.

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                            SOLICITATION OF PROXIES

     The cost of solicitation of proxies will be borne by the Company, and in
addition to soliciting stockholders by mail, the Company may request banks,
brokers and other custodians, nominees and fiduciaries to solicit their
customers who have stock of the Company registered in the names of a nominee
and, if so, will reimburse such banks, brokers and other custodians, nominees
and fiduciaries for their reasonable out-of-pocket costs. Solicitation by
officers and employees of the Company may also be made of some stockholders in
person or by mail, telephone or internet following the original solicitation.
Netegrity has contracted with Georgeson Shareholder Communications, Inc. to
assist in the solicitation of proxies for a fee of $12,500 plus expenses.

                        HOUSEHOLDING OF PROXY STATEMENT

     Some banks, brokers and other nominee record holders may be participating
in the practice of "householding" proxy statements and annual reports. This
means that only one copy of the Company's proxy statement or annual report may
have been sent to multiple stockholders in your household. The Company will
promptly deliver a copy of either document to you if you call or write the
Company at the following address or phone number: Netegrity, Inc., 201 Jones
Road, Waltham, Massachusetts 02451, Attention: Corporate Secretary, (781)
890-1700. If you would like to receive separate copies of the annual report and
proxy statement in the future, or if you have received multiple copies and in
the future would like to receive only one copy for your household, you should
contact your bank, broker, or other nominee record holder, or you may contact
the Company at the above address and phone number.

                                          By Order of the Board of Directors,

                                          /s/ Barry N. Bycoff
                                          President And Chief Executive Officer

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                                   APPENDIX A
                                NETEGRITY, INC.

                            AUDIT COMMITTEE CHARTER

A. PURPOSE

     The purpose of the Audit Committee is to assist the Board of Directors'
oversight of the Company's accounting and financial reporting processes and the
audits of the Company's financial statements.

B. STRUCTURE AND MEMBERSHIP

     1. Number.  The Audit Committee shall consist of at least three members of
the Board of Directors.

     2. Independence.  Except as otherwise permitted by the applicable NASDAQ
rules, each member of the Audit Committee shall be independent as defined by
NASDAQ rules, meet the criteria for independence set forth in Rule 10A-3(b)(1)
under the Exchange Act (subject to the exemptions provided in Rule 10A-3(c)),
and not have participated in the preparation of the financial statements of the
Company or any current subsidiary of the Company at any time during the past
three years.

     3. Financial Literacy.  Each member of the Audit Committee must be able to
read and understand fundamental financial statements, including the Company's
balance sheet, income statement, and cash flow statement, at the time of his or
her appointment to the Audit Committee. In addition, at least one member must
have past employment experience in finance or accounting, requisite professional
certification in accounting, or any other comparable experience or background
which results in the individual's financial sophistication, including being or
having been a chief executive officer, chief financial officer or other senior
officer with financial oversight responsibilities. Unless otherwise determined
by the Board of Directors (in which case disclosure of such determination shall
be made in the Company's annual report filed with the SEC), at least one member
of the Audit Committee shall be an "audit committee financial expert" (as
defined by applicable SEC rules).

     4. Chair.  Unless the Board of Directors elects a Chair of the Audit
Committee, the Audit Committee shall elect a Chair by majority vote.

     5. Compensation.  The compensation of Audit Committee members shall be as
determined by the Board of Directors. No member of the Audit Committee may
receive, directly or indirectly, any consulting, advisory or other compensatory
fee from the Company or any of its subsidiaries, other than fees paid in his or
her capacity as a member of the Board of Directors or a committee of the Board.

     6. Selection and Removal.  Members of the Audit Committee shall be
appointed by the Board of Directors, upon the recommendation of the Nominations
Committee. The Board of Directors may remove members of the Audit Committee from
such committee, with or without cause.

C. AUTHORITY AND RESPONSIBILITIES

  General

     The Audit Committee shall discharge its responsibilities, and shall assess
the information provided by the Company's management and the independent
auditor, in accordance with its business judgment. Management is responsible for
the preparation, presentation, and integrity of the Company's financial
statements and for the appropriateness of the accounting principles and
reporting policies that are used by the Company. The independent auditors are
responsible for auditing the Company's financial statements and for reviewing
the Company's unaudited interim financial statements. The authority and
responsibilities set forth in this Charter do not reflect or create any duty or
obligation of the Audit Committee to plan or conduct any audit, to determine or
certify that the Company's financial statements are complete, accurate, fairly
presented, or in accordance with generally accepted accounting principles or
applicable law, or to guarantee the independent auditor's report.

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  Oversight of Independent Auditors

     1. Selection.  The Audit Committee shall be solely and directly responsible
for appointing, evaluating, retaining and, when necessary, terminating the
engagement of the independent auditor. The Audit Committee may, in its
discretion, seek stockholder ratification of the independent auditor it
appoints.

     2. Independence.  The Audit Committee shall take, or recommend that the
full Board of Directors take, appropriate action to oversee the independence of
the independent auditor. In connection with this responsibility, the Audit
Committee shall obtain and review a formal written statement from the
independent auditor describing all relationships between the auditor and the
Company, including the disclosures required by Independence Standards Board
Standard No. 1. The Audit Committee shall actively engage in dialogue with the
auditor concerning any disclosed relationships or services that might impact the
objectivity and independence of the auditor.

     3. Compensation.  The Audit Committee shall have sole and direct
responsibility for setting the compensation of the independent auditor. The
Audit Committee is empowered, without further action by the Board of Directors,
to cause the Company to pay the compensation of the independent auditor
established by the Audit Committee.

     4. Pre-approval of Services.  The Audit Committee shall pre-approve all
audit services to be provided to the Company, whether provided by the principal
auditor or other firms, and all other services (review, attest and non-audit) to
be provided to the Company by the independent auditor. The Audit Committee may
delegate to one or more designated members of the Audit Committee who are
independent directors of the Board of Directors, the authority to grant
pre-approvals. The decisions of any member to whom authority is delegated to
pre-approve an activity shall be presented to the full Audit Committee at each
of its scheduled meetings. Without limiting the foregoing, de minimis non-audit
services may instead be approved in accordance with applicable SEC rules.

     5. Oversight.  The independent auditor shall report directly to the Audit
Committee, and the Audit Committee shall have sole and direct responsibility for
overseeing the work of the independent auditor, including resolution of
disagreements between Company management and the independent auditor regarding
financial reporting. In connection with its oversight role, the Audit Committee
shall, from time to time as appropriate, receive and consider the reports
required to be made by the independent auditor regarding:

     - critical accounting policies and practices;

     - alternative treatments within generally accepted accounting principles
       for policies and practices related to material items that have been
       discussed with Company management, including ramifications of the use of
       such alternative disclosures and treatments, and the treatment preferred
       by the independent auditor; and

     - other material written communications between the independent auditor and
       Company management.

  Audited Financial Statements

     6. Review and Discussion.  The Audit Committee shall review and discuss
with the Company's management and independent auditor the Company's audited
financial statements, including the matters about which Statement on Auditing
Standards No. 61 (Codification of Statements on Auditing Standards, AU sec.380)
requires discussion.

     7. Recommendation to Board Regarding Financial Statements.  The Audit
Committee shall consider whether it will recommend to the Board of Directors
that the Company's audited financial statements be included in the Company's
Annual Report on Form 10-K.

     8. Audit Committee Report.  The Audit Committee shall prepare an annual
committee report for inclusion where necessary in the proxy statement of the
Company relating to its annual meeting of security holders.

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  Review of Other Financial Disclosures

     9. Independent Auditor Review of Interim Financial Statements.  The Audit
Committee shall direct the independent auditor to use its best efforts to
perform all reviews of interim financial information prior to disclosure by the
Company of such information and to discuss promptly with the Audit Committee and
the Chief Financial Officer any matters identified in connection with the
auditor's review of interim financial information which are required to be
discussed by applicable auditing standards. The Audit Committee shall direct
management to advise the Audit Committee in the event that the Company proposes
to disclose interim financial information prior to completion of the independent
auditor's review of interim financial information.

  Controls and Procedures

     10. Oversight.  The Audit Committee shall coordinate the Board of
Directors' oversight of the Company's internal control over financial reporting,
disclosure controls and procedures and code of conduct. The Audit Committee
shall receive and review the reports of the CEO and CFO required by Rule 13a-14
of the Exchange Act.

     11. Procedures for Complaints.  The Audit Committee shall establish
procedures for (i) the receipt, retention and treatment of complaints received
by the Company regarding accounting, internal accounting controls or auditing
matters; and (ii) the confidential, anonymous submission by employees of the
Company of concerns regarding questionable accounting or auditing matters.

     12. Related-Party Transactions.  The Audit Committee shall review all
related party transactions on an ongoing basis, and all such transactions must
be approved by the Audit Committee.

     13. Additional Powers.  The Audit Committee shall have such other duties as
may be delegated from time to time by the Board of Directors.

D. PROCEDURES AND ADMINISTRATION

     1. Meetings.  The Audit Committee shall meet as often as it deems necessary
in order to perform its responsibilities. The Audit Committee may also act by
unanimous written consent in lieu of a meeting. The Audit Committee shall keep
such records of its meetings as it shall deem appropriate.

     2. Subcommittees.  The Audit Committee may form and delegate authority to
one or more subcommittees (including a subcommittee consisting of a single
member), as it deems appropriate from time to time under the circumstances. Any
decision of a subcommittee to pre-approve audit, review, attest or non-audit
services shall be presented to the full Audit Committee at its next scheduled
meeting.

     3. Reports to Board.  The Audit Committee shall report regularly to the
Board of Directors.

     4. Charter.  At least annually, the Audit Committee shall review and
reassess the adequacy of this Charter and recommend any proposed changes to the
Board of Directors for approval.

     5. Independent Advisors.  The Audit Committee is authorized, without
further action by the Board of Directors, to engage such independent legal,
accounting and other advisors as it deems necessary or appropriate to carry out
its responsibilities. Such independent advisors may be the regular advisors to
the Company. The Audit Committee is empowered, without further action by the
Board of Directors, to cause the Company to pay the compensation of such
advisors as established by the Audit Committee.

     6. Investigations.  The Audit Committee shall have the authority to conduct
or authorize investigations into any matters within the scope of its
responsibilities as it shall deem appropriate, including the authority to
request any officer, employee or advisor of the Company to meet with the Audit
Committee or any advisors engaged by the Audit Committee.

     7. Funding.  The Audit Committee is empowered, without further action by
the Board of Directors, to cause the Company to pay the ordinary administrative
expenses of the Audit Committee that are necessary or appropriate in carrying
out its duties.

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                                                                      Appendix B

                                 NETEGRITY, INC.

                            2004 STOCK INCENTIVE PLAN

Purpose

  The purpose of this 2004 Stock Incentive Plan (the "Plan") of Netegrity, Inc.,
a Delaware corporation (the "Company"), is to advance the interests of the
Company's stockholders by enhancing the Company's ability to attract, retain and
motivate persons who make (or are expected to make) important contributions to
the Company by providing such persons with equity ownership opportunities and
performance-based incentives and thereby better aligning the interests of such
persons with those of the Company's stockholders. Except where the context
otherwise requires, the term "Company" shall include any of the Company's
present or future parent or subsidiary corporations as defined in Sections
424(e) or (f) of the Internal Revenue Code of 1986, as amended, and any
regulations promulgated thereunder (the "Code") and any other business venture
(including, without limitation, joint venture or limited liability company) in
which the Company has a controlling interest, as determined by the Board of
Directors of the Company (the "Board").

Eligibility

  All of the Company's employees, officers, directors, consultants and advisors
(including persons who have entered into an agreement with the Company under
which they will be employed by the Company in the future) are eligible to be
granted options, restricted stock awards, stock appreciation rights or other
stock-based awards (each, an "Award") under the Plan. Each person who has been
granted an Award under the Plan shall be deemed a "Participant".

Administration and Delegation

      Administration by Board of Directors. The Plan will be administered by the
Board. The Board shall have authority to grant Awards and to adopt, amend and
repeal such administrative rules, guidelines and practices relating to the Plan
as it shall deem advisable. The Board may correct any defect, supply any
omission or reconcile any inconsistency in the Plan or any Award in the manner
and to the extent it shall deem expedient to carry the Plan into effect and it
shall be the sole and final judge of such expediency. All decisions by the Board
shall be made in the Board's sole discretion and shall be final and binding on
all persons having or claiming any interest in the Plan or in any Award. No
director or person acting pursuant to the authority delegated by the Board shall
be liable for any action or determination relating to or under the Plan made in
good faith.

      Appointment of Committees. To the extent permitted by applicable law, the
Board may delegate any or all of its powers under the Plan to one or more
committees or subcommittees of the Board (a "Committee"). All references in the
Plan to the "Board" shall mean the Board or a Committee of the Board or the
officers referred to in Section 3(c) to the extent that the Board's powers or
authority under the Plan have been delegated to such Committee or officers.

      Delegation to Officers. To the extent permitted by applicable law, the
Board may delegate to one or more officers of the Company the power to grant
Awards to employees or officers of the Company or any of its present or future
subsidiary corporations and to exercise such other powers under the Plan as the
Board may determine, provided that the Board shall fix the terms of the Awards
to be granted by such officers (including the exercise price of such Awards,
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price will be determined) and the maximum number of shares subject to Awards
that the officers may grant; provided further, however, that no officer shall be
authorized to grant Awards to any "executive officer" of the Company (as defined
by Rule 3b-7 under the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as amended (the
"Exchange Act")) or to any "officer" of the Company (as defined by Rule 16a-1
under the Exchange Act).

Stock Available for Awards

      Number of Shares. Subject to adjustment under Section 9, Awards may be
made under the Plan for up to 4,000,000 shares of common stock, $.01 par value
per share, of the Company (the "Common Stock"). Notwithstanding the foregoing,
no more than 800,000 shares of Common Stock may be issued pursuant to all Awards
other than Options or SARs (each as hereinafter defined). If any Award expires
or is terminated, surrendered or canceled without having been fully exercised or
is forfeited in whole or in part (including as the result of shares of Common
Stock subject to such Award being repurchased by the Company at the original
issuance price pursuant to a contractual repurchase right) or results in any
Common Stock not being issued, the unused Common Stock covered by such Award
shall again be available for the grant of Awards under the Plan, subject,
however, in the case of Incentive Stock Options (as hereinafter defined), to any
limitations under the Code. Shares issued under the Plan may consist in whole or
in part of authorized but unissued shares or treasury shares.

      Per-Participant Limit. Subject to adjustment under Section 9, the maximum
number of shares of Common Stock with respect to which Awards may be granted to
any Participant under the Plan shall be 500,000 per calendar year. The
per-Participant limit described in this Section 4(b) shall be construed and
applied consistently with Section 162(m) of the Code ("Section 162(m)").

Stock Options

      General. The Board may grant options to purchase Common Stock (each, an
"Option") and determine the number of shares of Common Stock to be covered by
each Option, the exercise price of each Option and the conditions and
limitations applicable to the exercise of each Option, including conditions
relating to applicable federal or state securities laws, as it considers
necessary or advisable. An Option which is not intended to be an Incentive Stock
Option (as hereinafter defined) shall be designated a "Nonstatutory Stock
Option".

      Incentive Stock Options. An Option that the Board intends to be an
"incentive stock option" as defined in Section 422 of the Code (an "Incentive
Stock Option") shall only be granted to employees of Netegrity, Inc., any of
Netegrity, Inc.'s present or future parent or subsidiary corporations as defined
in Sections 424(e) or (f) of the Code, and any other entities the employees of
which are eligible to receive Incentive Stock Options under the Code, and shall
be subject to and shall be construed consistently with the requirements of
Section 422 of the Code. The Company shall have no liability to a Participant,
or any other party, if an Option (or any part thereof) that is intended to be an
Incentive Stock Option is not an Incentive Stock Option.

      Exercise Price. The Board shall establish the exercise price at the time
each Option is granted and specify it in the applicable option agreement;
provided, however, that the exercise price shall be not less than 100% of the
Fair Market Value (as hereinafter defined) at the time the Option is granted.

      Duration of Options. Each Option shall be exercisable at such times and
subject to such terms and conditions as the Board may specify in the applicable
option agreement; provided, however, that no Option will be granted for a term
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      Exercise of Option. Options may be exercised by delivery to the Company of
a written notice of exercise signed by the proper person or by any other form of
notice (including electronic notice) approved by the Board together with payment
in full as specified in Section 5(f) for the number of shares for which the
Option is exercised.

      Payment Upon Exercise. Common Stock purchased upon the exercise of an
Option granted under the Plan shall be paid for as follows:

            in cash or by check, payable to the order of the Company;

            except as the Board may otherwise provide in an option agreement, by
(i) delivery of an irrevocable and unconditional undertaking by a creditworthy
broker to deliver promptly to the Company sufficient funds to pay the exercise
price and any required tax withholding or (ii) delivery by the Participant to
the Company of a copy of irrevocable and unconditional instructions to a
creditworthy broker to pay promptly to the Company the exercise price and any
required tax withholding;

            if provided for in the option agreement or approved by the Company
in its sole discretion, by delivery of shares of Common Stock owned by the
Participant valued at their fair market value as determined by (or in a manner
approved by) the Board ("Fair Market Value"), provided (i) such method of
payment is then permitted under applicable law, (ii) such Common Stock, if
acquired directly from the Company, was owned by the Participant at least six
months prior to such delivery and (iii) such Common Stock is not subject to any
repurchase, forfeiture, unfulfilled vesting or other similar requirements;

            if provided for in the option agreement or approved by the Company
in its sole discretion, by (i) delivery of a promissory note of the Participant
to the Company on terms determined by the Board, or (ii) payment of such other
lawful consideration as the Board may determine; or

            by any combination of the above permitted forms of payment.

      Substitute Options. In connection with a merger or consolidation of an
entity with the Company or the acquisition by the Company of property or stock
of an entity, the Board may grant Options in substitution for any options or
other stock or stock-based awards granted by such entity or an affiliate
thereof. Substitute Options may be granted on such terms as the Board deems
appropriate in the circumstances, notwithstanding any limitations on Options
contained in the other sections of this Section 5 or in Section 2.

Stock Appreciation Rights

      Nature of Stock Appreciation Rights. A Stock Appreciation Right, or SAR,
is an Award entitling the holder on exercise to receive an amount in cash or
Common Stock or a combination thereof (such form to be determined by the Board)
determined in whole or in part by reference to appreciation, from and after the
date of grant, in the fair market value of a share of Common Stock. SARs may be
based solely on appreciation in the fair market value of Common Stock or on a
comparison of such appreciation with some other measure of market growth such as
(but not limited to) appreciation in a recognized market index. The date as of
which such appreciation or other measure is determined shall be the exercise
date unless another date is specified by the Board in the SAR Award.

      Grants. Stock Appreciation Rights may be granted in tandem with, or
independently of, Options granted under the Plan.


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            Rules Applicable to Tandem Awards. When Stock Appreciation Rights
are expressly granted in tandem with Options, the Stock Appreciation Right and
the related Options will be exercisable only at such time or times and on such
conditions as the Board may specify in the SAR Award or the related Option.

            Exercise of Independent Stock Appreciation Rights. A Stock
Appreciation Right not expressly granted in tandem with an Option will become
exercisable at such time or times, and on such conditions, as the Board may
specify in the SAR Award.

      Exercise. Any exercise of a Stock Appreciation Right must be in writing,
signed by the proper person and delivered or mailed to the Company, accompanied
by any other documents required by the Board.

Restricted Stock.

      Grants. The Board may grant Awards entitling recipients to acquire shares
of Common Stock, subject to the right of the Company to repurchase all or part
of such shares at their issue price or other stated or formula price (or to
require forfeiture of such shares if issued at no cost) from the recipient in
the event that conditions specified by the Board in the applicable Award are not
satisfied prior to the end of the applicable restriction period or periods
established by the Board for such Award (each, a "Restricted Stock Award").

      Terms and Conditions. The Board shall determine the terms and conditions
of a Restricted Stock Award, including the conditions for repurchase (or
forfeiture) and the issue price, if any.

      Stock Certificates. Any stock certificates issued in respect of a
Restricted Stock Award shall be registered in the name of the Participant and,
unless otherwise determined by the Board, deposited by the Participant, together
with a stock power endorsed in blank, with the Company (or its designee). At the
expiration of the applicable restriction periods, the Company (or such designee)
shall deliver the certificates no longer subject to such restrictions to the
Participant or if the Participant has died, to the beneficiary designated, in a
manner determined by the Board, by a Participant to receive amounts due or
exercise rights of the Participant in the event of the Participant's death (the
"Designated Beneficiary"). In the absence of an effective designation by a
Participant, "Designated Beneficiary" shall mean the Participant's estate.

Other Stock-Based Awards.

  Other Awards of shares of Common Stock, and other Awards that are valued in
whole or in part by reference to, or are otherwise based on, shares of Common
Stock or other property, may be granted hereunder to Participants ("Other Stock
Unit Awards"), including without limitation Awards entitling recipients to
receive shares of Common Stock to be delivered in the future. Such Other Stock
Unit Awards shall also be available as a form of payment in the settlement of
other Awards granted under the Plan or as payment in lieu of compensation to
which a Participant is otherwise entitled. Other Stock Unit Awards may be paid
in shares of Common Stock or cash, as the Board shall determine. Subject to the
provisions of the Plan, the Board shall determine the conditions of each Other
Stock Unit Awards, including any purchase price applicable thereto. At the time
any Award is granted, the Board may provide that, at the time Common Stock would
otherwise be delivered pursuant to the Award, the Participant will instead
receive an instrument evidencing the Participant's right to future delivery of
the Common Stock.

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      Changes in Capitalization. In the event of any stock split, reverse stock
split, stock dividend, recapitalization, combination of shares, reclassification
of shares, spin-off or other similar change in capitalization or event, or any
distribution to holders of Common Stock other than an ordinary cash dividend,
(i) the number and class of securities available under this Plan, (ii) the limit
on the number of securities available under this Plan for Awards other than
Options and SARs set forth in Section 4(a), (iii) the per-Participant limit set
forth in Section 4(b), (iv) the number and class of securities and exercise
price per share subject to each outstanding Option, (v) the repurchase price per
share subject to each outstanding Restricted Stock Award and (vi) the share- and
per-share-related provisions of each outstanding Stock Appreciation Right and
Other Stock Unit Award, shall be appropriately adjusted by the Company (or
substituted Awards may be made, if applicable) to the extent determined by the
Board.

      Reorganization Events.

            Definition. A "Reorganization Event" shall mean: (a) any merger or
consolidation of the Company with or into another entity as a result of which
all of the Common Stock of the Company is converted into or exchanged for the
right to receive cash, securities or other property, (b) any exchange of all of
the Common Stock of the Company for cash, securities or other property pursuant
to a share exchange transaction or (c) any liquidation or dissolution of the
Company.

            Consequences of a Reorganization Event on Awards. In connection with
a Reorganization Event, the Board shall take any one or more of the following
actions as to all or any outstanding Awards on such terms as the Board
determines: (i) provide that Awards shall be assumed, or substantially
equivalent Awards shall be substituted, by the acquiring or succeeding
corporation (or an affiliate thereof), (ii) upon written notice to a
Participant, provide that the Participant's unexercised Options or other
unexercised Awards shall become exercisable in full and will terminate
immediately prior to the consummation of such Reorganization Event unless
exercised by the Participant within a specified period following the date of
such notice, (iii) in the event of a Reorganization Event under the terms of
which holders of Common Stock will receive upon consummation thereof a cash
payment for each share surrendered in the Reorganization Event (the "Acquisition
Price"), make or provide for a cash payment to a Participant equal to (A) the
Acquisition Price times the number of shares of Common Stock subject to the
Participant's Options or other Awards (to the extent the exercise price does not
exceed the Acquisition Price) minus (B) the aggregate exercise price of all such
outstanding Options or other Awards, in exchange for the termination of such
Options or other Awards, (iv) provide that outstanding Awards shall become
exercisable or realizable, or restrictions applicable to a Restricted Stock
Award or other Award shall lapse, in whole or in part prior to or upon such
Reorganization Event, (v) provide that, in connection with a liquidation or
dissolution of the Company, Awards shall convert into the right to receive
liquidation proceeds (if applicable, net of the exercise price thereof) and (vi)
any combination of the foregoing. To the extent all or any portion of an Option
becomes exercisable solely as a result of clause (ii) above, the Board may
provide that upon exercise of such Option the Participant shall receive shares
subject to a right of repurchase by the Company or its successor at the Option
exercise price; such repurchase right (x) shall lapse at the same rate as the
Option would have become exercisable under its terms and (y) shall not apply to
any shares subject to the Option that were exercisable under its terms without
regard to clause (ii) above. Without limiting the generality of Sections 10(f)
and 11(d) below, the Board shall have the right to amend this Section 9(b)(2) to
the extent it deems necessary or advisable.

General Provisions Applicable to Awards

      Transferability of Awards. Except as the Board may otherwise determine or
provide in an Award, Awards shall not be sold, assigned, transferred, pledged or
otherwise encumbered by the person to whom they are granted, either voluntarily
or by operation of law, except by will or the laws of descent and distribution
or, other than in the case of an Option intended to be an Incentive Stock
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to a qualified domestic relations order, and, during the life of the
Participant, shall be exercisable only by the Participant. References to a
Participant, to the extent relevant in the context, shall include references to
authorized transferees.

      Documentation. Each Award shall be evidenced in such form (written,
electronic or otherwise) as the Board shall determine. Each Award may contain
terms and conditions in addition to those set forth in the Plan.

      Board Discretion. Except as otherwise provided by the Plan, each Award may
be made alone or in addition or in relation to any other Award. The terms of
each Award need not be identical, and the Board need not treat Participants
uniformly.

      Termination of Status. The Board shall determine the effect on an Award of
the disability, death, retirement, authorized leave of absence or other change
in the employment or other status of a Participant and the extent to which, and
the period during which, the Participant, or the Participant's legal
representative, conservator, guardian or Designated Beneficiary, may exercise
rights under the Award.

      Withholding. Each Participant shall pay to the Company, or make provision
satisfactory to the Company for payment of, any taxes required by law to be
withheld in connection with an Award to such Participant. If provided for in an
Award or approved by the Company in its sole discretion, a Participant may
satisfy such tax obligations in whole or in part by delivery of shares of Common
Stock, including shares retained from the Award creating the tax obligation,
valued at their Fair Market Value; provided, however, that the total tax
withholding where stock is being used to satisfy such tax obligations cannot
exceed the Company's minimum statutory withholding obligations (based on minimum
statutory withholding rates for federal and state tax purposes, including
payroll taxes, that are applicable to such supplemental taxable income). Shares
surrendered to satisfy tax withholding requirements cannot be subject to any
repurchase, forfeiture, unfulfilled vesting or other similar requirements. The
Company may, to the extent permitted by law, deduct any such tax obligations
from any payment of any kind otherwise due to a Participant.

      Amendment of Award. Except as prohibited by Section 5(d), The Board may
amend, modify or terminate any outstanding Award, including but not limited to,
substituting therefore another Award of the same or a different type, changing
the date of exercise or realization, and converting an Incentive Stock Option to
a Nonstatutory Stock Option, provided that the Participant's consent to such
action shall be required unless the Board determines that the action, taking
into account any related action, would not materially and adversely affect the
Participant.

      Conditions on Delivery of Stock. The Company will not be obligated to
deliver any shares of Common Stock pursuant to the Plan or to remove
restrictions from shares previously delivered under the Plan until (i) all
conditions of the Award have been met or removed to the satisfaction of the
Company, (ii) in the opinion of the Company's counsel, all other legal matters
in connection with the issuance and delivery of such shares have been satisfied,
including any applicable securities laws and any applicable stock exchange or
stock market rules and regulations, and (iii) the Participant has executed and
delivered to the Company such representations or agreements as the Company may
consider appropriate to satisfy the requirements of any applicable laws, rules
or regulations.

      Acceleration. The Board may at any time provide that any Award shall
become immediately exercisable in full or in part, free of some or all
restrictions or conditions, or otherwise realizable in full or in part, as the
case may be.


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      Deferrals. The Board may permit Participants to defer receipt of any
Common Stock issuable upon exercise of an Option or upon the lapse of any
restriction applicable to any Restricted Stock Award, subject to such rules and
procedures as it may establish.

      Share Issuance. To the extent that the Plan provides for issuance of stock
certificates to reflect the issuance of shares of Common Stock or Restricted
Stock, the Board may provide for the issuance of such shares on a
non-certificated basis, to the extent not prohibited by applicable law or the
rules of any stock exchange on which the Common Stock is traded.

Miscellaneous

      No Right To Employment or Other Status. No person shall have any claim or
right to be granted an Award, and the grant of an Award shall not be construed
as giving a Participant the right to continued employment or any other
relationship with the Company. The Company expressly reserves the right at any
time to dismiss or otherwise terminate its relationship with a Participant free
from any liability or claim under the Plan, except as expressly provided in the
applicable Award.

      No Rights As Stockholder. Subject to the provisions of the applicable
Award, no Participant or Designated Beneficiary shall have any rights as a
stockholder with respect to any shares of Common Stock to be distributed with
respect to an Award until becoming the record holder of such shares.
Notwithstanding the foregoing, in the event the Company effects a split of the
Common Stock by means of a stock dividend and the exercise price of and the
number of shares subject to such Option are adjusted as of the date of the
distribution of the dividend (rather than as of the record date for such
dividend), then an optionee who exercises an Option between the record date and
the distribution date for such stock dividend shall be entitled to receive, on
the distribution date, the stock dividend with respect to the shares of Common
Stock acquired upon such Option exercise, notwithstanding the fact that such
shares were not outstanding as of the close of business on the record date for
such stock dividend.

      Effective Date and Term of Plan. The Plan shall become effective on the
date on which it is adopted by the Board, but no Award may be granted unless and
until the Plan has been approved by the Company's stockholders. No Awards shall
be granted under the Plan after the completion of 10 years from the earlier of
(i) the date on which the Plan was adopted by the Board or (ii) the date the
Plan was approved by the Company's stockholders, but Awards previously granted
may extend beyond that date.

      Amendment of Plan. The Board may amend, suspend or terminate the Plan or
any portion thereof at any time; provided that, to the extent determined by the
Board, no amendment requiring stockholder approval under any applicable legal,
regulatory or listing requirement shall become effective until such stockholder
approval is obtained. No Award shall be made that is conditioned upon
stockholder approval of any amendment to the Plan.

      Provisions for Foreign Participants. The Board may, without amending the
Plan, modify Awards or Options granted to Participants who are foreign nationals
or employed outside the United States or establish subplans under the Plan to
recognize differences in laws, rules, regulations or customs of such foreign
jurisdictions with respect to tax, securities, currency, employee benefit or
other matters.

      Governing Law. The provisions of the Plan and all Awards made hereunder
shall be governed by and interpreted in accordance with the laws of the State of
Delaware, without regard to any applicable conflicts of law.


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                                     PROXY

                                NETEGRITY, INC.

                         ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS
                                  May 26, 2004

      The undersigned hereby appoints Barry N. Bycoff and Regina O. Sommer, and
each of them, as proxies, with full power of substitution, to vote all shares of
capital stock of Netegrity, Inc. (the "Company") which the undersigned is
entitled to vote as indicated upon the matters on the reverse side at the Annual
Meeting of Stockholders of the Company to be held on Wednesday, May 26, 2004, at
9:00 a.m., local time, at the Company, 201 Jones Road, Waltham, MA 02451 and at
any adjournments thereof. Attendance of the undersigned at the Annual Meeting of
Stockholders or any adjourned session thereof will not be deemed to revoke this
proxy unless the undersigned affirmatively indicate(s) there at the intention of
the undersigned to vote said shares of common stock in person. If the
undersigned holds any of the shares of common stock in a fiduciary, custodial or
joint capacity or capacities, this proxy is signed by the undersigned in every
such capacity as well as individually.

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                              PLEASE ACT PROMPTLY

      DATE AND SIGN THIS PROXY IN THE SPACE PROVIDED AND RETURN IT IN THE
  ENCLOSED ENVELOPE WHETHER OR NOT YOU EXPECT TO ATTEND THE MEETING IN PERSON.
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IF YOUR ADDRESS HAS CHANGED, PLEASE
CORRECT THE ADDRESS IN THE SPACE
PROVIDED BELOW AND RETURN THIS
PORTION IN THE ENVELOPE PROVIDED.          DO YOU HAVE ANY COMMENTS?

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                                                                      Appendix C

NETEGRITY, INC.

C/O EQUISERVE TRUST COMPANY, N.A.
P.O. BOX 8694
EDISON, NJ 08818-8694


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                YOUR VOTE IS IMPORTANT. PLEASE VOTE IMMEDIATELY.


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LOG ON TO THE INTERNET AND GO TO            CALL TOLL-FREE
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            DETACH HERE IF YOU ARE RETURNING YOUR PROXY CARD BY MAIL

[X] PLEASE MARK                                                             #NTE
    VOTES AS IN
    THIS EXAMPLE.



THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS RECOMMENDS A VOTE "FOR" THE ELECTION OF THE NOMINEES IN
PROPOSAL 1 AND "FOR" PROPOSAL 2 AND PROPOSAL 3.

1. Election of Directors.

   NOMINEES: (01) Sandra E. Bergeron, (02) Barry N. Bycoff,
             (03) Eric R. Giler, (04) Lawrence D. Lenihan, Jr.,
             (05) Ronald T. Maheu and (06) Ralph B. Wagner

                  FOR                   WITHHELD
                  ALL     [ ]       [ ] FROM ALL
                NOMINEES                NOMINEES

             [ ]__________________________________________
                For all nominee(s) except as written above

2. Approval of the adoption of the 2004 Stock            FOR   AGAINST   ABSTAIN
   Incentive Plan.                                       [ ]     [ ]       [ ]

3. To grant discretionary authority to the presiding     [ ]     [ ]       [ ]
   officer to propose and vote for one or more
   adjournments of the annual meeting, including
   adjournments to permit further solicitations of
   proxies.

   THIS PROXY IS SOLICITED ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS. SHARES
   REPRESENTED BY THIS PROXY WILL BE VOTED AS SPECIFIED. IF NO SPECIFICATION IS
   MADE, THE SHARES REPRESENTED WILL BE VOTED FOR THE PROPOSAL. IN THEIR
   DISCRETION, THE PROXIES ARE AUTHORIZED TO VOTE UPON SUCH OTHER BUSINESS AS
   MAY PROPERLY COME BEFORE THE MEETING OR ANY ADJOURNMENT THEREOF.

   Mark box at right if you plan to attend the Annual Meeting.            [ ]

   Mark box at right if an address change or comment has been             [ ]
   noted on the reverse side of this card.

   Please sign this proxy exactly as name appears hereon. When shares are held
   by joint tenants, both should sign. When signing as attorney, administrator,
   trustee, guardian, or other fiduciary please give full title as such. If a
   corporation, please sign in corporate name, by authorized officer. If a
   partnership, please sign in partnership name by authorized person.


Signature:______________ Date:________    Signature:______________ Date:________



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